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- [Lighthouse Thoughts](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/blog/) - Beacon House Adoption Services Adoption Blog - Lighthouse Thoughts. Trusted resources and the experience of a well-established adoption agency.
- [Say Hello and Wave Goodbye](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/say-hello-and-wave-goodbye/) - Hello adoption. Goodbye infertility roller-coaster. Welcoming a new chapter in your life is never easy. Having been on the emotional roller-coaster of infertility for several years, my husband and I decided to move forward with adoption. For us that meant saying goodbye to our desires to have a biological child, but honestly after four failed IVF’s, we
- [Halloween Crafts - Spooky Haloween Themed Bath Bombs](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/09/halloween-crafts-sppoky-haloween-themed-bath-bombs/) - Have a little fun and just in time for the month of October! Level of difficulty: It's just like baking but without the baking Age range: 4+ with help Safety first: Although the ingredients are non-toxic, they are quite powdery. Wear a mask to avoid breathing them in especially little kids who are close to
- [10 Simple Ways to Defuse a Power Struggle](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/10/10-simple-ways-to-defuse-a-power-struggle/) - 10 ways to defuse a power struggle Parenting educator and psychotherapist Andrea Nair offers up these genius tricks for avoiding and managing pint-sized attempts at household domination. October 3, 2017: By Andrea Nair Photo: @princessandpotato via Instagram 1. Connect first Power struggles often happen because your child doesn't feel like you're on the same team.
- [Childrens Phobias - When Fear Takes Over](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/09/childrens-phobias-when-fear-takes-over/) - I came across this article recently and I have to say, I wish I had seen this about 8 years ago! It would have been helpful for my now pre-teen. An Age-by-Age Guide to Kids Phobias https://www.todaysparent.com/kids/preschool/when-fear-takes-over-childrens-phobias/
- [Varied Degrees of Openness](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/08/varied-degrees-of-openness/) - Open adoption occurs when the birth parents and prospective adoptive families are allowed to interact with one another. Though the types of contact may vary from one family to another. It may involve letters, e-mails, telephone calls, or visits. Beacon House has traditionally been an agency that allowed for semi-open adoption through its Domestic Adoption
- [When Your Teen Wants to Search for Their Birth Parents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/08/when-your-teen-wants-to-search-for-their-birth-parents/) - Part of how teens form identity is by finding ways they are alike and different from their family. They may want to search for their genetic relatives to figuring out who they are and how to emotionally put pieces in place. Found a great article at Therapy Insider . https://www.therapyinsider.com/Article/Three-Points-Center/Should-Adopted-Teens-Search-for-Their-Birth-Parents/
- [REAL STRENGTH](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/08/real-strength/) - “REAL STRENGTH” -a poem about adoption written by a loving birth father, the night his son was born. Today, once again you amazed me. I watched you give birth to our son, to their son, to a family. How strong you must be to deal with all the pain of labor. And at the end
- [Why “Back to School” Can Be Hard For Women Who Have Placed a Child for Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/08/why-back-to-school-can-be-hard-for-women-who-have-placed-a-child-for-adoption/) - I can only imagine being in this position. The strength and courage that many birth mothers have during and even long after placement is not lost on us! http://birthmomstoday.com/why-back-school-can-hard-women-placed-child-adoption/
- [Save the Adoption Tax Credit](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/08/save-the-adoption-tax-credit/) - For many families adoption wouldn't be possible without the adoption tax credit. http://adoptiontaxcredit.org
- [Back to School - Are You Ready?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/07/back-to-school-is-coming/) - With the end of summer fast approaching we are faced with the end of summer blues. Whether their summer was jam-packed with activities or filled with complaints about being bored with nothing to do, kids often have a tough time making the back-to-school transition. Here is some helpful information for Parents, Kids and Teens! https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/back-school.html
- [Placing a Child for Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/07/placing-a-child-for-adoption/) - If you are considering placing your child for adoption, you must consider your ability to parent a child. Are you able to provide a safe, secure home and provide for his needs? What are your hopes, dreams and future for yourself and your child? Decide what’s best for your child by making a parenting plan
- [Listen to your Child](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/07/listen-to-your-child/) - When your child does talk about his birth family, it is important to answer questions honestly and gently, as is age appropriate. Empathize and validate his feelings. Don’t be judgmental or invalidate feelings. Don’t lay blame or take anything he has personally. For a child who may be struggling with grief and loss or identity,
- [The Silent Tragedy Affecting Today’s Children](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/07/the-silent-tragedy-affecting-todays-children/) - The Silent Tragedy Affecting Today’s Children BY VICTORIA PROODAY, OCCUPATIONAL THERAPIST “What is wrong? Today’s children are being deprived of the fundamentals of a healthy childhood, such as: · Emotionally available parents · Clearly defined limits and guidance · Responsibilities · Balanced nutrition and adequate sleep · Movement and outdoors · Creative play, social interaction, opportunities
- [Helping Kids with Difficult Adoption Questions](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/07/helping-kids-with-difficult-adoption-questions/) - The Center for Adoption Support and Education W.I.S.E. UP! program teaches techniques for helping kids that they have 4 choices when faced with difficult adoption questions: W: Walk away or choose not to pay attention I: It's private: I can choose not to share information S: Share some information about adoption or my story E:
- [A Full-Service Adoption Agency](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/07/a-full-service-adoption-agency/) - Founded in 1989, Beacon House Adoption Services is a licensed, Non-Profit, Adoption Agency with a long tradition of working with adoptive families. BHAS’s Domestic Adoption Program is a full-service process that takes a family from the start of adoption to its completion, including finalization services, emotional support, birth mother outreach, and all services involved in
- [Where did she get that pretty blonde hair?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/where-did-she-get-that-pretty-blonde-hair/) - With my husband and I both brunettes, I frequently was asked where my kids got their blonde hair from. My answers varied from “most of the women on my mom’s side of the family were blonde” to “my brothers hair was just like that when he was little” and to the crabby answer of “just
- [Adoption Book List - Good Summer Reading!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/adoption-book-list-good-summer-reading/) - Here’s our list of favorite adoption books! Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents, by Deborah D. Gray Beneath the Mask: Understanding Adopted Teens, by Debbie Riley(Author), John Meeks (Contributor) The Connected Child: Bring hope and healing to your adoptive family , by Karyn B. Purvis, David R. Cross, and Wendy Lyons Sunshine Inside Transracial Adoption: Strength-based, Culture-sensitizing Parenting Strategies for Inter-country
- [You Have to be Rich to Adopt](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/you-have-to-be-rich-to-adopt/) - There are many reasons why families don’t pursue an adoption. The ones we hear most often are that “we can’t afford to adopt” or that you “have to be rich to adopt.” You don’t have to be rich to adopt, nor do you have to have copious amounts of money in savings. All that is
- [An Adopted Father is Many Things](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/an-adopted-father-is-many-things/) - Poet Jane Murphy says that “An Adopted Father...is many things.” He “drives a truck, works on Wall Street, or supervises a factory. “He is black, white, or yellow and has an Italian, Greek, Irish, or Polish name.” “He is often forgotten, overlooked, never written about, or seldom praised, and yet...without him, where would our children
- [I Wished for You: A Keepsake Adoption Journal](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/i-wished-for-you-a-keepsake-adoption-journal/) - “Every child, every family's story is unique... and now every story can be told. This beautifully designed keepsake journal captures all of the emotions, history, hopes, dreams, and surprises that each adoption journey entails through guided prompts that encourage parents to enjoy and reflect on their own experience. Created specifically for adoptive parents, I Wished
- [An Adopted Child’s Advantages in a Semi-Open Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/an-adopted-childs-advantages-in-a-semi-open-adoption/) - Each child’s experience with semi-open adoption will vary. These variables include the degree of openness, the ability to maintain communication, and the willingness of the adult parties to honor their commitments, to name a few. Advantages that a semi-open adoption may provide to an adopted child may include: Communication with birth families No birth parent/family
- [8 Warning Signs That Your Child Is Under Too Much Stress](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/8-warning-signs-that-your-child-is-under-too-much-stress/) - Nightmares, trouble concentrating, anger issues, etc.; these can all be signs that your child is under too much stress. Be aware of these symptoms especially if you suspect anxiety is a problem. http://www.scholastic.com/parents/resources/article/social-emotional-skills/8-warning-signs-your-child-under-too-much-stress
- [The Execution of Consents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/06/the-execution-of-consents/) - The process which allows Beacon House to place a child with approved adoptive parents is called an Execution of Consents. You may also here it called a termination of parental rights, a revocation, a surrender, relinquishment, etc. The agency will make the arrangements for the birth mother to sign the execution of consents at the
- [Is your Child Ready for Kindergarten?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/is-your-child-ready-for-kindergarten/) - Teachers say the top readiness skills for kindergarten are: Enthusiasm Toward Learning Solid Oral-Language Skills The Ability to Listen The Desire to Be Independent The Ability to Play Well with Others Strong Fine-Motor Skills Basic Letter and Number Recognition Enthusiasm Toward Learning Five teachers tell you what preschoolers really need for next year. http://www.scholastic.com/parents/resources/article/what-to-expect-grade/ready-kindergarte
- [Your Adoption Profile Book](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/your-adoption-profile-book-3/) - As part of the adoption matching process, you will be asked to create a personal profile in the form of a Profile Book. This is the tool that is used to provide birthparents your information in a non-identifying way. The Profile Book is a picture book with snapshots, and important personal information about the adoptive
- [The Effects of Ballet Classes Schools Don't Tell You](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/the-effects-of-ballet-classes-schools-dont-tell-you/) - A parent once asked me, “Why do you spend so much money and time for your daughter’s ballet classes and rehearsals so that she goes on stage once a year?” This is what I answered: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/effects-ballet-classes-schools-dont-tell-you-mironova-evdokimova-
- [The 3 Types of Domestic Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/the-3-types-of-domestic-adoption/) - Open Adoption Involves sharing of identifying information between the Adoptive Parents & Birth Mother. It may include addresses, phone numbers, emails, surnames, Facebook, etc. In some cases, both parties have on-going communication throughout the child's life. Closed Adoption Neither party shares any identifying information about themselves and do not communicate with each other, before or
- [To the Adopting Mom Who is About to Meet Her Child for the First Time](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/to-the-adopting-mom-who-is-about-to-meet-her-child-for-the-first-time/) - “Mama, you are about to embark on your own metamorphosis. The road ahead will not be easy. You already know that in your head. But you are about to actually experience the knowing in your heart and soul.” See more: http://bit.ly/2qJojIq
- [Books About Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/books-about-adoption/) - Provide stories for a range of ages, ... emotional issues and questions from kids of preschool-early school age-high school graduation on the title page and moving back through his life ... http://www.pbs.org/parents/adventures-in-learning/2014/11/books-adoption/
- [Is College Right for Your Teen?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/is-college-right-for-your-teen/) - Some teens are ready to go away to school and hit the books. Others may need different options. https://www.adoptivefamilies.com/parenting/should-i-go-to-college/
- [GRADUATION](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/graduation/) - Graduation- just the idea of it is enough to make a Mom grab a box of tissues. Whether it be from preschool, college, or anywhere in between, it is an important milestone in the life of your child. Graduation is both the beginning and the end. Or for us Mom’s, the beginning of the end.
- [When is professional help necessary for your baby?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/when-is-professional-help-necessary-for-your-baby/) - “If you are concerned about your baby's physical or emotional development, see a developmental pediatrician or other knowledgeable therapist.” Adoptive Families has published the following “signs that you should seek guidance” for your baby if he or she is/has: Overly independent or overly compliant; lack of eye contact Comprehension but no language development Delayed crawling
- [A Birth Parent Question-Who are Adoptive Parents?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/a-birth-parent-question-who-are-adoptive-parents/) - Adoptive parents can be anyone who wants to adopt a child. While most adoptive parents are married couples, who cannot have a biological child, they may also include families that experience secondary infertility, previously had a difficult pregnancy or decide they want to expand their family via adoption. Additionally, more single women are choosing adoption.
- [Your Newborn Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/your-newborn-baby/) - Bonding with baby, newborn sleep, feedings, diaper rash and more. “No matter how well you've prepared, you're bound to be surprised as you learn about your new baby” 8 Questions About Your Newborn Baby's First Week http://www.webmd.com/parenting/treat-diaper-rash-16/newborn-first-week
- [Bonding with Baby at Each Developmental Stage](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/bonding-with-baby-at-each-developmental-stage/) - A look at “ how adopting parents can enhance attachment at each developmental stage from the first, precious moments of infancy through the walking, talking days of toddlerhood.” From our friends at Adoptive Families: http://bit.ly/20uLS3p
- [Goal Setting and Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/goal-setting-and-adoption/) - To quantify what you wish to achieve, it may help to set some goals for your adoption. In setting goals, be specific: explicitly set forth; definite. Make sure that you are clear and detailed in all communication. Each component should be particularly fitted to a use or purpose. It should be limited, distinctive, or unique.
- [The Coolest Stroller Ever!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/05/the-coolest-stroller-ever/) - The Award winning smarTrikes are designed for babies from 6 months and up. This stroller converts to more practical options as your baby grows. It provides safety and comfort with an adjustable seat that reclines allowing baby to nap. The multi-position adjustable handle makes it easy for drivers to steer. When you release the clutch,
- [The Vestibular System and Your Child’s Behavior](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/the-vestibular-system-and-your-childs-behavior/) - The vestibular system, often the least discussed of the senses, is responsible for the sense of balance and movement. “Every child has a different thresh-hold or limit of what their vestibular system can handle.” “Information from the eyes, ears, and vestibular system (balance & movement) combine to give an awareness of yourself in relation to
- [Are you Considering placing your child for adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/are-you-considering-placing-your-child-for-adoption/) - While Adoption has many benefits for you and your child, making an adoption plan for your child is not an easy choice. It is not a decision to be entered, into lightly. It requires time and understanding your options. Deciding what to do about your pregnancy is one of the most important decisions you will
- [The “I’m Bored” Generation](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/the-im-bored-generation/) - Here’s Why Our Kids NEED To Be Unplugged AND Restarted Kid’s are plugged in 24/7. They need to “unplug regularly, embrace boredom and discover” themselves. They need to learn how to cope relax and with downtime and boredom. They need to develop life skills that do not require the use of “headphones or a remote
- [Social Media and Fundraising Campaigns](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/social-media-and-fundraising-campaigns/) - Our Adoption Finance team will be presenting a workshop for Beacon House Parents in Progress on May 22, 7:00 pm CST, 8pm EST. “Coach Brandi Palmer will be looking at Social Media and Fundraising Campaigns. The world of social media is also very complex, Brandi will help us understand how to use these tools to make the most of
- [Social Media and Fundraising Campaigns](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/social-media-and-fundraising-campaigns/) - Our Adoption Finance team will be presenting a workshop for Beacon House Parents in Progress on May 22, 7:00 pm CST, 8pm EST. “Coach Brandi Palmer will be looking at Social Media and Fundraising Campaigns. The world of social media is also very complex, Brandi will help us understand how to use these tools to make the most of
- [Navigating the Adoption Process Faster](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/navigating-the-adoption-process-faster/) - Each year there are over 20,000 infants placed for adoption in the United States. Families who have fewer restrictions can navigate the adoption process faster than families who have very limited criteria for their adoption match. Most BHAS families successfully complete an adoption within one to two years* of beginning the adoption process. Criteria that
- [Growing Families Spring Tea](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/growing-families-spring-tea/) - You’re Invited Growing Families Spring tea April 30, 1-4pm Oak Lodge, Baton Rouge LA Founded in 1989, Beacon House has provided professional and caring adoption services to birth and adopting parents for over 27 years. Aside from helping young women who consider adoption, funding the Infant Adoption Initiative and co-sponsoring the “Sock it to Me”
- [Growing Families Spring Tea](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/growing-families-spring-tea/) - You’re Invited Growing Families Spring tea April 30, 1-4pm Oak Lodge, Baton Rouge LA Founded in 1989, Beacon House has provided professional and caring adoption services to birth and adopting parents for over 27 years. Aside from helping young women who consider adoption, funding the Infant Adoption Initiative and co-sponsoring the “Sock it to Me”
- [Ten Easy Steps to an Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/ten-easy-steps-to-an-adoption/) - Select an adoption agency Execute your contract Complete your Adoption Homestudy Complete your Pre-adoption education Submit profile book Enter the matching pool Get matched Baby is born Birthmother signs the Execution of Consents Accept Custody Review each of these steps in depth, by attending one of our FREE adoption Webinars, or schedule a consultation.
- [Conversation Starters with your Child](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/conversation-starters-with-your-child/) - We all have heard the simple yes, no, okay, boring, etc., answers when we’ve asked our children questions. Instead of asking questions with easy out replies, try asking a few of these conversation starters: 50 Questions to Ask Your Kids Instead of Asking “How Was Your Day” http://herviewfromhome.com/50-questions-to-ask-your-kids-instead-of-asking-how-was-your-day/
- [Adoption Financing](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/adoption-financing/) - Did you know that Beacon House Adoption Services is the first, full-service agency offering the Adoption Finance Coaching System? THE FCS is a proven system, helping you reach your financial goals to bring your family together forever! At BHAS, all Beacon House families have access to our adoption finance coach. The coach will help you: Determine
- [What to Expect When You're Adopting](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/what-to-expect-when-youre-adopting/) - A practical guide to the decisions and emotions involved in adoption This guide “leads parents through the many stages and emotional aspects involved and offer practical and sensitive advice.” https://www.amazon.com/What-Expect-When-Youre-Adopting-ebook/dp/B0031RS2SQ
- [Qualifying for Adoption Grants](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/qualifying-for-adoption-grants/) - Coming up in April, our Adoption Finance Coaches are teaming up to bring you an exciting and informative webinar on Qualifying for Grants. There are so many questions families have about how to determine which foundation best fit their needs, how to review the web sites and determining the types of grants that are best for
- [Finding Balance with Cocooning](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/04/finding-balance-with-cocooning/) - For adoptive families, “the idea of “nesting” is to simplify life, settle into a routine, and limit the care of the child to the mom and dad. The idea of cocooning is to allow life to settle down for the child and parents and to firmly cement in the child’s mind who are mom and
- [What is Domestic Adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/what-is-domestic-adoption/) - A Domestic Adoption is the adoption of a child born in the same country as the adoptive parents. It occurs when the biological parents of a child relinquish their parental rights to that child. There are several types of domestic adoption: Open Adoption Involves sharing identifying information between Adoptive Parents & Birth Mother - addresses,
- [The Matching Process](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/the-matching-process/) - At Beacon House we do not have a Waiting List. Instead we have a matching pool of approved families to help coordinate a perfect match between the Birth Mother and the Adoptive Family. We only take up to thirty families in the matching pool at any given time Every Adoptive Parent in our program is
- [Learning Empathy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/learning-empathy/) - When a child asks “what’s wrong with them” our answer needs to be what is right with them. “Every person in a child’s life can help him or her develop empathy, an important quality for personal and professional success.” Empathy Is Tough to Teach, But Is One Of the Most Important Life Lessons https://www.facebook.com/Chatbooks/videos/948176885313332/
- [Meeting the Needs of Birthmothers](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/meeting-the-needs-of-birthmothers/) - At Beacon House we have a responsibility to our Birthmothers to provide the highest quality of care. The care and support that Beacon House’s birthmothers receive during the domestic adoption process is what makes our program successful. Here are a few links that explain some of many ways that we work with our birthmothers. Unplanned
- [Meeting the Needs of Birthmothers](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/meeting-the-needs-of-birthmothers/) - At Beacon House we have a responsibility to our Birthmothers to provide the highest quality of care. The care and support that Beacon House’s birthmothers receive during the domestic adoption process is what makes our program successful. Here are a few links that explain some of many ways that we work with our birthmothers. Unplanned
- [Agency Fees](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/agency-fees/) - In general, adoption agency fees cover the cost of doing business. They include but are not limited to; rent, utilities, office supplies, employee salaries, insurance non-profit donations, marketing and advertising, web-site, collecting and organizing data, maintaining records, maintaining licenses, professional training, participating in a adoption expos and workshops, and more. Beacon House's agency fees are
- [Why do We Need an Adoption Budget ?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/why-do-we-need-an-adoption-budget/) - An adoption budget is a necessary part of the adoption process. It allows us to match adoptive parents with a birthmother whose needs don’t exceed their financial means. Beacon House's agency fees are set, they are do not change. Fees are structured so that families are paying a portion of the fees and expenses throughout their
- [Recess and Attention Deficit Disorder](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/recess-and-attention-deficit-disorder/) - Recess and Attention Deficit Disorder I think many parents of kids with ADHD would agree that when it comes to outdoor play, less is not more. One Texas school agrees. “According to Today, the Eagle Mountain Elementary in Fort Worth, Texas, has been giving kindergarten and first-grade students two 15-minute recess breaks every morning and
- [Requirements for Adoptive Families](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/requirements-for-adoptive-families/) - Beacon House utilizes the most flexible criteria for accepting families into our adoption program, within the parameters of each state’s law. Adoptive families are required to complete an adoption home study, in the state they reside in, as part of the adoption process. This approval will allow BHAS to place a child with the adoptive
- [Advocacy for Teens that Struggle with ADHD](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/advocacy-for-teens-that-struggle-with-adhd/) - “I hear from so many worried parents about how their teen is struggling, hating school, not progressing, getting failing grades, developing bad attitudes, sustaining low self-esteem, and just seeming to not care as he/she just falls through cracks. Their teen is so impacted with this invisible medical diagnosis called ADHD that he may not even
- [Inconspicuous Families](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/inconspicuous-families/) - When parents adopt a child of the same race, they retain a certain degree of anonymity. Unlike transracial adoptive families who become conspicuous families, these adoptive families do not share the same sense of urgency in addressing issues related to race and adoption. Being an inconspicuous family doesn’t mean that adoption issues are not important.
- [Diapers: Cloth versus Disposable](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/diapers-cloth-versus-disposable/) - The average baby uses 8-10 diapers a day. Each year, more than 18 billion diapers went into landfills in America. Cloth diapers are less expensive and reduce the amount of landfill waste. Cloth diapers have been making a comeback. No more safety pins and plastic pants. Today’s diapers are easier to fit, have Velcro or
- [The 2017 Adoption Tax Credit](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/the-2017-adoption-tax-credit/) - If you are completing an adoption in 2017, you may quality for the Adoption Tax Credit. The Federal Adoption Tax Credit for 2017 is $13,570 for “qualified adoption expenses.” According to the IRS, qualified adoption expenses may include: · Adoption fees · Attorney fees · Court costs · Travel expenses · Expenses directly related to the adoption For
- [How to Get Your Baby to Sleep](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/how-to-get-your-baby-to-sleep/) - We’ve all been there. “It’s exhausting enough taking care of a new baby all day. When your child also won’t sleep, that is exhausting and frustrating. How can you know what your baby wants or needs? And with all of the information out there on getting your child to sleep, and staying asleep, how do
- [Gift of Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/03/gift-of-adoption/) - For Beacon House Parents in Progress Upcoming event: 15 Mar 2017 6:00 PM CDT Beacon House Parents in Progress, you’re invited to join, guest Brian Murphy, COO of Gift of Adoption Foundation, for an adoption webinar. Gift of Adoption’s mission is fill the void that separates child from family – through adoption assistance grants. Brian
- [A Birthmother’s Testimony](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/a-birthmothers-testimony/) - Dear Beacon House, I just wanted to say Thank You so much for helping me in one of the most difficult times in my life. I came to you and you opened your arms to me with love and understanding. You showed me that even though life throws you a curve ball you can still
- [Birth Father Rights](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/birth-father-rights/) - Generally speaking birth fathers fall into one of four categories: known, unknown, uninvolved, or involved. Every state has different laws that govern the issues related to biological fathers’ rights in adoption. Birth fathers may or may not be involved in the adoption process. Staff at Beacon House works with the adoptive families to answer questions
- [Raising “Good” Kids](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/raising-good-kids/) - Raising good kids is easier than you think. “Psychologists at Harvard have found that there are several elements that are very important and basic: parents who raise “good kids” do these 5 things.” See: http://curiousmindmagazine.com/parents-who-raise-good-kids/
- [Why Your Kid Should Wrestle](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/why-your-kid-should-wrestle/) - As the parent of a 2 time State Champion wrestler, I was excited to learn that several of our other “Beacon House babies” are now wrestling too. While wrestling can be a tough sport for Mom to watch, it has many great benefits. Wrestlers are considered the most elite conditioned athletes at their school, they learn disciple,
- [Are you ready to learn more about adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/are-you-ready-to-learn-more-about-adoption/) - If the answer to your questions is YES, then join us for a free Domestic Adoption Webinar. Webinars are offered weekly with many convenient options available for dates and times. If you can’t find a date that works for you, let us know and we can add one to the schedule. At our Domestic Adoption
- [My Family, My Journey: A Baby Book for Adoptive Families](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/my-family-my-journey-a-baby-book-for-adoptive-families/) - My Family, My Journey: A Baby Book for Adoptive Families by Zoe Francesca (Author), Susie Ghahremani (Illustrator) “For the growing audience of adoptive families, Chronicle Books is proud to offer a baby book that suits the wide array of experiences and choices that bring a family and their new child together. This lovely keepsake album contains sections to record
- [Adoption after Infertility](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/adoption-after-infertility/) - For families who have experienced infertility, moving from infertility to adoption can be a difficult journey. As difficult as infertility can be, it’s important to note that adoption isn’t always easy either. Sometimes it’s hard. Moving from one to another without taking the time to prepare emotionally and financially can make the process seem more
- [Happy Birthday-or is it?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/happy-birthday-or-is-it/) - “It’s not uncommon for adopted children, teens, and even adults to have conflicting feelings about birthdays.” Birthdays can be triggers for grief in children, who may exhibit a number of different reactions ranging from; sad to angry, or indifferent. Challenging behaviors may be misunderstood and difficult to deal with. What your child needs is validation
- [Developing Fine Motor Skills](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/developing-fine-motor-skills/) - During the preschool years there are a number of fine motor skills that your child will master. Increased hand-eye coordination and fine motor skills will allow your child to perform everyday task which will lead to greater independence and self-confidence. The mastery of these skills will set a foundation for exploration and learning, and creative
- [Sensory Seeking and Sensory Avoiding](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/sensory-seeking-and-sensory-avoiding/) - Does your child play too rough, have a high pain tolerance or lack an understanding of personal space? Does he startle easy, avoid touch, or fuss about tags in clothing? If either one of these sound like your child, he may struggle with sensory processing issues. “There are two ways kids with sensory processing issues
- [Home Study Documents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/home-study-documents/) - One of the first things you will begin working on, after you have selected your adoption agency is your adoption home study. The home study can be overwhelming for some parents, because in addition to required home visits, you will also need supporting documentation. The State that you reside in has jurisdiction over your adoption
- [The Worst and Best: Being an Old Mom](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/02/the-worst-and-best-being-an-old-mom/) - I can definitely relate to number two on the worst list- 2. Font Sizes. Even with reading glasses the fonts on many mediations, etc. are too small. Thank goodness for my handy magnifying glass, lol. 10 Worst Things About Being An Old Mom- by Kathleen Dennehy “The hardest part of being a parent is witnesses.”
- [Your Child’s Birthparents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/your-childs-birthparents/) - Without your child’s birthparents, you would not be an adoptive parent. Your thoughts and feelings towards your child’s birthparents resonate clearly to your child. It is important for your child to be able to process his feelings towards his birthparents. He will need your help. You can assist him by keeping the following in mind: Don’t
- [Considering Adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/considering-adoption/) - If you are considering adoption, it is important that you gain a clear understanding of all the steps of the adoption process. Choosing the right agency is an important part of this process. By working with our Adoption Specialist at Beacon House, attending webinars, and taking pre-adoption education classes, our adoptive families gain the necessary
- [ADHD Advice from Olympian Michael Phelps Mom](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/adhd-advice-from-olympian-michael-phelps-mom/) - "They Will Make You Proud." “Here, the mother of history's most decorated Olympic athlete, Michael Phelps, explains how he overcame and harnessed his ADHD symptoms as a young swimmer and student. Need some parenting advice? Likewise, the parents of "Extreme Makeover" star Ty Pennington and world record-breaking climber Danielle Fisher offer inspiration and strategies.” by Judy
- [What is the Matching Pool?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/what-is-the-matching-pool/) - The Matching Pool is the pool of prospective adoptive families who are waiting to be matched with a birth parents. Some adoption agencies will take an unlimited number of families into their matching pool however, at Beacon House we only accept up to thirty families in the matching pool. We believe that by limiting the
- [Open versus Closed Adoption  ](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/open-versus-closed-adoption/) - At Beacon House we do not promote either totally open or totally closed adoptions. The issue of open versus closed adoptions requires some understanding of the vast spectrum of possibilities in this area. We recognize that there are varying degrees of openness in adoption. We provide extensive counseling with all the parties to the adoptive
- [Birthparents are off Limits](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/birthparents-are-off-limits/) - Most adoptive parents have a great deal of awe and respect for their children’s birthparents. It’s frustrating when well-meaning friends and families just don’t get it. “More often than not, the conclusions people draw about our children’s birth parents are far from funny.” 3 Reasons Not To Vilify My Kid’s Birth Mother, by Kristin Berry
- [Why Choose Domestic Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/why-choose-domestic-adoption/) - The cost for a domestic adoption is usually less expensive There is less paperwork than with international Less travel and no international travel involved A child can be placed with a family shortly after birth Children have the ability to try to locate birth parents as an adult There is more medical information and
- [Listening to your Child](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/listening-to-your-child/) - Communication is key to successful parenting. Especially if you are an adoptive family. Listening to, processing, and deciphering what your child says versus what he means or how he feels, leads to a better understanding and anticipation of his needs. When you validate your child’s feeling he is more likely to communicate more freely. Effective
- [Spoiling your Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/spoiling-your-baby/) - Like bellybuttons, everyone has an opinion on how much is too much, when it comes to spoiling your baby. Holding your baby, feeding your baby, soothing her with your voice and skin to skin contact are all key elements in facilitating bonding and attachment. Scary Mommy says that, “Thankfully, most moms have strong enough instincts
- [2017 Adoption Resolutions](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2017/01/2017-adoption-resolutions/) - Get your Adoption Journey off to the right start this year - Start Here! Attend an Adoption Webinar http://ww3.beaconhouseadoption.com/public_html/calendar/ Buy a Book on Adoption Contact Beacon House Adoption for a FREE Adoption Consultation http://ww3.beaconhouseadoption.com/public_html/free-information-about-adoption/ Decide which type of adoption to pursue Research an Adoption Topic Sign up for the BHAS Newsletter http://ww3.beaconhouseadoption.com/public_html/newsletter/ Talk to an Adoptive
- [Faith, Patience, and Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/faith-patience-and-adoption/) - Adoption is a lesson in many things; faith, patience, peace, love, perseverance, etc. The list is endless and everyone’s adoption journey is different. No two families come to adoption in the same way. Every family must follow their own path to adoption. They must have faith that things will work out as they are supposed to; faith
- [Experience Counts](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/experience-counts/) - At a time when many adoption agencies have closed their doors, it is more important than ever to work with an experienced adoption agency. Founded in 1989, with over 27 years’ experience, Beacon House Adoption Services has served several thousand families and birthmothers. At Beacon House, Birthmothers are provided with extensive in-house counseling by our
- [We Wish You Adoption ](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/we-wish-you-adoption/) - May the spirit of adoption fill your heart this Christmas Season. Whether you are in the process of adopting a child or simply adopting a new resolution or a healthy lifestyle, it is impossible to count the many blessings received by adoption. From all of us at Beacon House, we wish you a joyful, very,
- [We Wish You Love](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/we-wish-you-love/) - Peace-Love-Adoption. The greatest of these is Love. Adoption is a gift of love. Birthmothers choose life and adoption because they love their baby. Adoptive families receive this gift of love and share this love with their children. This Christmas we wish you the gift of love.
- [We Wish You Peace  ](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/we-wish-you-peace/) - This holiday season we at Beacon House wish you Peace-Love-and Adoption! Whether it be peace with your decision to adopt or at peace with the decision to place your baby for adoption, it has derived from your strength and courage. Being at peace with yourself means that you have received the gifts of wisdom and understanding.
- [Holidays and Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/holidays-and-adoption/) - Holidays can be an exciting and happy time for families, but for adopted children, they can also be an emotional trigger point, making the hustle and bustle of holidays a challenge. Feelings about birth families, or issues surrounding race and culture may come to the surface. Some children may experience feelings of sadness and loss.
- [Start a New Family Tradition](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/start-a-new-family-tradition/) - Family traditions provide a source of family identity. Traditions and rituals tell a story about a family and are often handed down from one generation to the next. This provides an important multi-generational connection to family history. “Traditions can teach children where their family came from or give them insights into their cultural or religious history.” For adoptive families traditions should come
- [Best Sellers in Children's Christmas Books](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/best-sellers-in-childrens-christmas-books/) - There’s nothing better than snuggling up on the sofa and reading a good book expect snuggling up in the sofa and reading a good book with your child. See Amazon’s list of Best Sellers in Children's Christmas Books https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Books-Childrens-Christmas/zgbs/books/3072 And don’t forget to order via AmazonSmile. Shop Amazon-Help Beacon House! “Amazon Smile is a simple
- [Requirements to Adopt](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/requirements-to-adopt/) - Beacon House utilizes the most flexible criteria for approving adoptive families, within the parameters of each state’s law. Beacon House is interested in making an adoptive placement that fits your family and fits the birth mother’s wants and needs. Our criterion does not exclude single parents or families with existing children. The main criteria for
- [Swaddling your Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/swaddling-your-baby/) - In the womb babies are warm and snug and have very little room to move about. After birth they miss this comforting confinement and may have difficulty sleeping. Swaddling soothes babies by recreating the comfort of the womb. Swaddling can help babies to stop crying and get them sleep better. Babies just being introduced to
- [Baby's First Christmas](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/12/babys-first-christmas/) - “Baby's first Christmas is filled with special milestones.” Try tips form parenting.com to make the first holiday season special. From festive décor, to Christmas Eve traditions there any ways to capture these special moments. For lots of fun ways to commemorate baby’s first Christmas see: http://www.parenting.com/gallery/babys-first-christmas
- [WHY ADOPT FROM BEACON HOUSE?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/why-adopt-from-beacon-house-2/) - Beacon House has an excellent record of placements of newborns. Since 1989, we have served several thousand families and birth mothers and maintain a high success rate. Birth mothers are provided with extensive in-house counseling by our staff, as well as independent counseling with licensed social workers. This communication with the agency is part of
- [2016’s Hottest Toys](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/2016s-hottest-toys/) - "Some of 2016’s hottest toys may be great gift ideas for your child. Others may not be a good match for kids with certain learning and attention issues. These holiday toy guides can help you choose gifts that fit your child’s strengths and interests." Amazon’s 2016 Holiday Toy List of favorite toys for everyone on
- [Gift Giving Tuesday](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/gift-giving-tuesday/) - What is Gift Giving Tuesday? The first Tuesday after Thanksgiving is globally known as Gift Giving Tuesday. GGT is a way to give back to the community. It is a call to action for people around the world to donate, time, talent, and monetary donations to the causes they care about and love. Gift Giving
- [Understanding Attachment](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/understanding-attachment/) - Research has found that the ability to form a healthy attachment is essential for optimum mental health. Understanding attachment and bonding it is foundational for all families. Because attachment begins in utero, it is particularly important for adoptive families. The quality of attachment between baby and his primary caretakers is a powerful influence on what
- [Chosen for Greatness: How Adoption Changes the World](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/chosen-for-greatness-how-adoption-changes-the-world/) - “Chosen for Greatness shows how adoption has made the world a much better place” “Chosen for Greatness profiles 25 well-known adoptees who were given the opportunity to change history for the better when they were taken in by their new families. Their contributions and accomplishments span the spectrum from science to sports, religion to entertainment, technology
- [The Purpose of the Adoption Homestudy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/the-purpose-of-the-adoption-homestudy/) - The Adoption Homestudy is a screening of the prospective adoptive parent’s home and life prior to an adoption. Every adoptive family, regardless of which type of adoption they choose, is required to have an approved adoption Homestudy. The Adoption Homestudy has three primary purposes: 1. Educate and prepare the adoptive family for adoption. 2. Evaluate the
- [Keys to a Successful Adoption: PERSERVERANCE](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/keys-to-a-successful-adoption-perserverance/) - Keys to a Successful Adoption: PERSERVERANCE When an adoption goes smoothly it is awesome. However, it is not uncommon for there to be some bumps in the road. There can be unexpected delays, changes in laws or documents, or a disruption- just to name a few. Without a clearly defined understanding of the adoption process,
- [Keys to a Successful Adoption: UNDERSTANDING](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/keys-to-a-successful-adoption-understanding/) - One of the keys to a successful adoption is that you have a good working understanding of how adoption works. Beginning the adoption process is not a decision to be entered into lightly. It requires time and a thorough understanding of the adoption process. At BHAS we work with you to make sure that all
- [Keys to a Successful Adoption: EXPECTATIONS](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/keys-to-a-successful-adoption-expectations/) - By providing clear, realistic exceptions to the adoptive family, we at Beacon House help prepare them for a successful adoption journey. This preparation helps families know what to expect and how the adoption process works. Transparency in the adoption process is provided via the adoption contract and the good faith estimate of birthmother’s expenses, where
- [Keys to a Successful Adoption: EDUCATION](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/keys-to-a-successful-adoption-education/) - At Beacon House we want your adoption process to be as smooth as possible from beginning to end. The keys to a successful adoption are education, understanding, expectations and perseverance. Education provides adoptive families with the tools that they need to understand the social dynamics of adoption and provide them with realistic expectations. Adoption Education
- [I Wished for You: An Adoption Story](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/i-wished-for-you-an-adoption-story/) - Love, Love, Love! 5 Stars ***** “I Wished for You: An Adoption Story by author Marianne Richmond follows a conversation between a little bear named Barley and his Mama as they curl up in their favorite cuddle spot and talk about how they became a family. Barley asks Mama the kinds of questions many adopted
- [AmazonSmile](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/amazonsmile/) - “Amazon Smile is a simple and automatic way for you to support your favorite charitable organization every time you shop, at no cost to you. Tens of millions of products on are eligible for donations. You will see eligible products marked “Eligible for donation” on their product detail pages. Recurring Subscribe-and-Save purchases and subscription renewals
- [National Adoption Awareness Month: November](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/national-adoption-awareness-month-november/) - One of the great things that make our country so unique is our cultural diversity. Without it, we would not be who we are as Americans. Nowhere is our legacy of blending race and culture more evident than in adoptive families. These families highlight our nation’s ability to overcome religious and racial differences and not
- [Sock it to Me!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/11/sock-it-to-me/) - Share your gift of warmth, give a pair of socks! Join us in supporting the Baton Rouge Parents Magazine’s 12th Annual “Sock it to Me” sock drive. Socks are the number one requested item at homeless and women’s shelters. Help us provide the gift of warmth by donating new socks, sizes infant to adult, to
- [Nine easy steps to adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/nine-easy-steps-to-adoption/) - Follow these nine easy steps to build your family through adoption. Research the type adoption you are planning. A prospective adoptive family will acquire information from the agencies they are considering and make a decision on which will work best for them. Choose an agency and submit the application. Once you have decided that Beacon
- [GoFundMe](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/gofundme/) - We are committed to helping you raise the money you need to bring your family together forever! Beacon House’s Adoption Finance Coach has teamed up with GoFundMe to help our families raise money for their adoptions! GoFundMe.com is the world’s #1 personal fundraising website. How Cash Gifts Work “Cash gifts are sometimes the best gifts
- [10 Tips for a Safe and Fun-filled Halloween](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/10-tips-for-a-safe-and-fun-filled-halloween/) - 1. Make a plan. Plan costumes, dinner, route etc. in advance. 2. Stick to well-lit areas that you are familiar with. Know which houses to skip. 3. Wear or carry at least one reflective item: carry a flashlight. 4. Put your business card or contact info in child’s pockets. (You may want to pin it
- [The Adoption Budget](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/the-adoption-budget/) - When a Birthmother enters our program, we calculate a good faith estimate of her needs and the fees associated with the adoption of her child. This is done on a case by case basis, rather than using a flat fee, because each birthmothers needs are different. An adoption budget is a necessary part of the adoption process.
- [Fall Family Traditions](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/fall-family-traditions/) - Fall family traditions start with road trips and apple orchards. We drive to the mountains, pick apples, and pick out a pumpkin for Halloween. We find our way out of a corn maze, ride in a wagon, and jump in haystacks. One of the perks of the “Great Apple Adventure” is that we spend the
- [Why Adopt through Beacon House?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/why-adopt-from-beacon-house/) - Beacon House Adoption Services has an excellent record of placements of newborns. Since 1989, we have served several thousand adoptive families and birth mothers, and maintain a high success rate. Birth mothers are provided with extensive in-house counseling by our staff, as well as independent counseling with licensed social workers. We believe, this open line of communication
- [Choosing a Halloween Costume for your Child ](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/choosing-a-halloween-costume-for-your-child/) - · Don't wait until the last minute to shop for a costume. · Make sure that the costume fits properly, is comfortable and that your child can walk and move around in it. · Don’t wear masks that obscure vision. · If your children are willing, coordinating costumes can be a fun option: a coven
- [Openness in Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/openness-in-adoption/) - At Beacon House we understand that the issues of privacy and confidently are paramount in adoption. The overwhelming majority of adoptions that we complete are considered semi-open adoptions. We do not promote either totally open or totally closed adoptions. Instead, we provide extensive counseling with all the parties to the adoptive process to determine their
- [Sudden Infant Death Syndrome](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/sudden-infant-death-syndrome/) - "Health care providers and researchers don't know the exact causes of SIDS, but they do know methods to help reduce the risk of SIDS and other sleep-related SUID” According to the CDC, these include the following: • Always place babies on their backs to sleep for every sleep. • Use a firm sleep surface, such as a
- [Friendships, Social Skills, and Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/friendships-social-skills-and-adoption/) - A number of adopted children struggle with Social Skills. You can help your child learn the basics of social interactions, schedule successful play dates, and support them in making and keeping friends. Potential causes of problems with peers: 1. “Lack of early secure attachments leading to more anxious/controlling behaviors in later relationships 2. Rough and
- [Attachment in Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/attachment-in-adoption/) - Attachment is a two-way reciprocal process of learned behavior between parents and their children. Through this process that people develop significance to one another. Attachment occurs over time though the consistency of the parent in meeting the physical and emotional needs of the child. Attachment is a natural part of the parent child relationship. It
- [3 Kinds of Adoptive Parents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/3-kinds-of-adoptive-parents/) - According to many professionals who work with adoptive families, there are three types of Adoptive Parents. They are the Blind, the Blaming, and the Balanced Adoptive Parents. Family dynamics are unique and even within a single family unit one parent may have a different parenting style than another. Immediate versus extended family members may also
- [Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew ](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/10/twenty-things-adopted-kids-wish-their-adoptive-parents-knew/) - Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge Difficult birthdays, talking about my birth family, I’m afraid you’ll leave me. Author Sherry Eldridge, who was adopted herself, “gives voice to children's unspoken concerns, and shows adoptive parents how to free their kids from feelings of fear, abandonment, and shame. Twenty Things Adopted
- [Sleep and Adopted Children](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/sleep-and-adopted-children-2/) - Are you ready for an afternoon nap? Are your little ones making you sleep deprived? Did you know many adopted children have sleep issues? You may notice from the very beginning that your child has a hard time going to sleep, or she may experience increasing difficulty in falling sleeping. Below is expert advice on sleep
- [Bonding with Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/bonding-with-baby-2/) - Bonding an attachment are a natural part of the parent /child relationship. The ordinary, daily necessary care that we give our baby facilitates this vital process. Bonding naturally occurs when consistently meeting your babies’ needs. By responding immediately to your baby when he is distressed, you build trust. Overtime, he will understand that you will
- [Disapproval Won't Cure ADHD](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/disapproval-wont-cure-adhd/) - As a parent of two kids with ADHD, I know first-hand what a struggle it can be. Whether it is the guilt they feel, not managing self-control, or routinely not completing task- to the frequent disapproval they receive from family, and peers, or general feelings of being different, one of my biggest concerns is what
- [Unplanned Pregnancy- How we can help](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/unplanned-pregnancy-how-we-can-help/) - If you are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, your options include parenting your child or making an adoption plan. Adoption can be an emotionally difficult journey, but it may be in the best interest for you and your child. At Beacon House we want to make sure that you have a clear understanding of adoption, that
- [5 Common Myths about Domestic Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/5-common-myths-about-domestic-adoption-2/) - Myth- It takes years to complete a domestic adoption. Reality- The average time frame to complete a Domestic Adoption is 1-2 years. Myth- Women who place children for adoption, have abandoned their child, and do so, due to selfish reasons. Reality-Most Birthmother’s choose adoption because they want, what they believe, is the best thing for
- [Tips for Transracial Adoptive Families](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/tips-for-transracial-adoptive-families/) - Parenting a child can be challenging, adding the complex issues of race requires transracial adoptive families to have a greater understanding of diversity and culture. Transracial Adoptive Parents have to be prepared to deal with racial stereotypes and intrusive questions, and to teach their children how to navigate them. Tips for transracial adoptive families include:
- [Transracial Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/transracial-adoption/) - Some adoptive families will decide to adopt a child of the same racial background as themselves, while others will be open to, or choose to adopt a child of a different race or ethnicity. A Transracial adoption refers to the adoption of a child that is of a different race than the adoptive parents. These
- [Bullying](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/bullying/) - I recently had a discussion with a parent who blamed bullying on Helicopter Parenting. I disagree, I don't think its Helicopter Parenting at all, if anything I tend to helicopter more because of the bullying one of my children has received. I think the primary issue is that kids are not taught core values: compassion,
- [Adoption Finance Coaching](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/adoption-finance-coaching/) - The Adoption Finance Coaching System consists of on-demand webinars, personalized coaching as well as a Go Fund Me option specifically designed for the agency and their clients. Webinars include: How to Plan Your Special Event, How to Write a Grant for Your Adoption, Your Adoption Budget and Beyond, How to Tell Your Inspiring Story, and
- [Tips for Introducing Foods to Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/tips-for-introducing-foods-to-baby/) - The best time to try is when your child has just woken up from a nap and is well rested. Spit happens- remember bibs are for spit up Because every child is different, always check with your child’s pediatrician before introducing new foods. Give your baby your undivided attention during mealtime. Use a rubber
- [Birth Mother Consultations](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/birth-mother-consultations/) - If you are now experiencing a pregnancy that you did not plan for, you may be considering adoption. At Beacon House, once you have contacted us for an adoption consultation, our Adoption Coordinator will assist you in determining what your needs are, your options, and how we can help. You will review: •Why you are
- [An Adoptee Wants You to Know](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/an-adoptee-wants-you-to-know/) - Regardless of their experience with adoption, most adoptees agree that: “There is no voice on our about adoption that is more important than your adoptees.” What an Adoptee Wants You to Know About Adoption http://www.huffingtonpost.com/madeleine-melcher/what-an-adoptee-wants-you-to-know-about-adoption_b_6914162.html
- [Birth Fathers](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/birth-fathers/) - Birth Fathers are often left out of the adoption discussion. It’s not because Birth fathers are less important, but because less than 25 % participate in an adoption plan for their child. A birthmother may not know where the birth father is, or is unable to name the birth father. In many cases, a termination
- [Flooding in Baton Rouge](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/09/flooding-in-baton-rouge/) - Beacon House is very thankful to report that during the recent flooding in Baton Rouge, our office was not flooded. That was not the case for many friends and families. Catastrophic flooding has devastated many homes in the area. Authorities have so many applications for aid that they can't keep up. We encourage anyone who
- [Adoption: Not a Second Choice](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/adoption-not-a-second-choice/) - Adoption is not a second choice. To imply that adoption is a second choice suggests that adding a child to a family via the process of adoption is second best. First and foremost, Adoption is a means to expand a family. While a number of families adopt after experiencing infertility, some families chose adoption to grow
- [Domestic Adoption in the US](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/domestic-adoption-in-the-us/) - In the United States, approximately 19,000 children are adopted each year through Domestic Infant Adoption. Approximately 99% of those children are placed via private adoption agencies such as Beacon House Adoption Services. In a private adoption parental rights are relinquished directly from the birthparents to the adoptive parents. You typically do not have parents contacting
- [Pictures in your Profile Book](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/pictures-in-your-profile-book/) - An adoption profile book is the tool that is used to provide birthparents with adoptive families’ information in a non-identifying way. Photographs tell the life story of the adoptive parents and provides insight into their interest, lifestyle, and values. The photographs in the profile book are what birthparents use determine which family they chose to
- [Back to School](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/back-to-school-2/) - Starting the new school year can be a scary, exciting time for many kids. There is more to back to school than buying school supplies, meeting the teacher, and making new friends. Getting used to new teachers, new schools and different classmates can sometimes be overwhelming. Preparation is key. See: Preparing for Questions at School: Teaching your child
- [The Finalization of an Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/the-finalization-of-an-adoption/) - A Finalization hearing for an adoption typically occurs at six to eight months after placement of the child with the adoptive family. Adoptions can be finalized once a termination of parental rights has been completed and Postplacement reports have been completed. An adoption can be finalized in the adoptive parent’s state of residence or
- [A Year of First](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/a-year-of-first/) - Baby's first year, is just the beginning of the firsts with your child. During that first year, it is a learning curve. You will learn your child’s likes and dislikes, strengths and weakness. Your child may be easy to put to bed, or want to stay up all night. Days may be filled with playdates or
- [Adoption and the Classroom](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/adoption-and-the-classroom/) - For adoptive families, back to school may present more than the typical challenges. The subject of family trees, baby pictures, timelines, and autobiography’s can be tricky for adopted children. Parents may have to decide who to share adoption information with, and how much information to share. Every child’s situation is different, but the most important
- [Parenting ....](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/parenting/) - Parenting can be a challenge, especially during the pre-teen and teen years. For parents of adopted children, see the Child Welfare Information Gateway's Fact Sheet; Parenting Your adopted Teenager "WHAT’S INSIDE: The impact of adoption on teenage development Communicating with your teenager about adoption Communicating and building relationships with birth family members Helping your teenager
- [Choosing Adoptive Parents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/choosing-adoptive-parents/) - How do I know these people will be good parents? Because you can choose the adoptive parents, you will know that your baby has been matched with a good family. People who adopt (in legal adoptions) have to go through an extensive, exhaustive background check in order to be approved to adopt. The major portion
- [Post Placement Services](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/08/post-placement-services/) - Once you have accepted physical custody of your baby, you will have several post-placement reports to complete. Post placement reports are a required component of the Finalization process. Usually the same Social Worker who did your adoption homestudy will also do the post placement reports. She will come out to your home to check on
- [Medical Diagnosis: Can I adopt?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/medical-diagnosis-can-i-adopt/) - Adoptive parents, like most parents, do not have to have perfect health to parent a child. It is possible to adopt a child if you have a current or previous medical diagnosis. Domestic adoption is usually more accepting of a medical diagnosis than international adoption. Acceptable medical diagnosis are at the discretion of the adoption
- [Naming Your Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/naming-your-baby/) - If you can’t decide on the perfect name for your baby, you can find help and inspiration at http://www.babycenter.com/baby-names-ideas . With more than forty list of themes to choose from ranging from world leaders, Star Wars, to Southern and nature, there should be something for everyone. I did think that Sigmund and Hildegard from the Scientist
- [Are You Considering Adoption for Your Baby?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/are-you-considering-adoption-for-your-baby/) - While Adoption has many benefits for you and your child, making an adoption plan for your child is not an easy choice. It is not a decision to be entered into lightly. It requires time and understanding your options. Deciding what to do about your pregnancy is one of the most important decisions you will
- [Transitional Care](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/transitional-care/) - Often there is transition time between the birth of the baby and the time that the Birthparents can sign the Execution of Consent which them allows the adoptive parents to take physical custody of the baby. When this occurs, he or she will be cared for by loving Transitional Parents. These Parents provide private in
- [ Adoption Day- Gotcha Day](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/-adoption-day-gotcha-day/) - Adoption Day, sometimes called “Gotcha Day” is a day to celebrate a child’s adoption or addition to the family. This informal holiday can be the day the child joined the family or the day the adoption was finalized. It is the most celebrated adoption related event in America. Families will often exchange gifts, do special
- [Is Making an Adoption Plan Right for You?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/is-making-an-adoption-plan-right-for-you/) - Adoption is a selfless act where a mother chooses adoption as a form of parenting as a way to best provide for her child. Women who choose adoption love their babies very much and want the best possible life for them. At Beacon House we can assist you in creating an adoption plan that meets
- [What is Adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/what-is-adoption/) - What is Adoption? Adoption is the transferring legal rights and responsibilities from Birthparents to Adoptive Parents. This transfer of rights creates a bond between two families. Adoption is the loving choice made by biological parents who choose a family to love and care for their child. Adoption provides homes for children that are emotional
- [Are we there yet?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/07/are-we-there-yet-2/) - Vacations are supposed to be fun, but traveling with a young child can also present many challenges. One of those is boredom or I should say boredom initiated, irritability: are we there yet, she’s touching me, he’s on my side of the car, I’m hot, I‘m hungry, or I need to go to the bathroom.
- [Adoption Terminology](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/adoption-terminology/) - Semi-open adoption, adoption triad, revocation: there are a litany of adoption terms that can be be confusing, misused, or misunderstood. It is important to have a working understanding of adoption terminology before starting the adoption process. Click here for Adoptive Families glossary of the most common adoption terms https://www.adoptivefamilies.com/how-to-adopt/adoption-terms-glossary/
- [Beach Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/beach-baby/) - With care, babies can enjoy a day at the beach as much as you can. Before you go, you will need to take extra precautions to protect baby’s delicate skin from the sun. While your babies out in the sun, he should wear UV protective clothing, sun hats, and possibly baby sunglasses. Before applying sunscreen,
- [Birthparent Grief](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/birthparent-grief/) - Birthparents who place a child for adoption may experience a grieving process. While this may be similar to other types of grief, loss, separation or loss of a loved one, there are some "significant differences for birth parents, due to the nature of the loss." https://www.pactadopt.org/app/servlet/documentapp.DisplayDocument?DocID=316
- [Dad's Rock](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/dads-rock/) - Dad’s Rock, especially Dads by adoption. Often overlooked but equally important, Dads are the backbone of the adoption process. Many dads work diligently behind the scenes, making sure finances are in order and paperwork is completed. They often carry the burden of stress, and are their wife’s biggest cheerleader. Dad’s advocate for their children and
- [The Reluctant Dad](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/the-reluctant-dad-2/) - The Reluctant Dad originally ran in the Beacon House, June 2009, Newsletter. We have received such positive response that we have ran it every year since. This is an updated version. The Reluctant Dad Other than the infertility issues we have experienced, everything is good. Why change that? My wife wants to adopt, but I’m
- [3 Tips for your Adoption Profile Book](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/3-tips-for-your-adoption-profile-book/) - 1. Don’t use too many pictures. A profile book tells your life story in pictures, but too many pictures on a page does not present well. Think quality not quantity: 4-6 pictures to a page maximum. 2. Don’t use too much text. Every picture does not need a caption, let pictures speak for themselves. Necessary
- [Bringing your Baby Home](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/bringing-your-baby-home/) - Bringing your baby home is a wonderfully exciting time for new parents. It can also be fraught with emotions: alternating between wonder and awe with grief and loss. The most important thing you can do is acknowledge that you are going through a transitional phase with your baby. As you are going through the initial
- [Choosing a Pediatrician](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/choosing-a-pediatrician-2/) - Choosing a pediatrician is an important step in your child’s healthcare plan. A pediatrician will be your child’s primary physician. Select a pediatrician in advance of your baby’s arrival and schedule an initial consultation. You will want to schedule a well-baby visit for within 48 hours of arriving home with your new baby. Your pediatrician
- [When to Call the Doctor](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/when-to-call-the-doctor/) - As a new parent, trying to determine whether your child is sick (or sick enough) and whether you should contact the pediatrician can be tricky. Always follow the physician’s advice and when in doubt seek help. Reasons to call the pediatrician or other health-care resources may include: • Your child looks and acts sick. •
- [Infant Development](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/06/infant-development/) - Infant development occurs in an orderly and predictable manner. In order to identify potential problems, parents need to have a working understanding of normal child development, acceptable variances, and problem indicators. Developmental milestones in adopted children should be closely supervised. Monitoring is essential to early diagnosis and intervention. The following is a list of developmental
- [Birthmother Care](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/birthmother-care/) - At Beacon House we have a responsibility to our Birthmothers to provide the highest quality of care. In order to achieve this goal, each of our Birthmother’s are assigned a Case Manager who is available to the birthmother 24 hours a day, 7days a week. The Case Manager’s role is to assist the Birthmother throughout
- [Understanding the Adoption Process](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/understanding-the-adoption-process/) - If you are considering adoption you have probably already thought a lot about your choices, and spent a reasonable amount of soul searching. Before moving forward it is necessary to have a good working knowledge of the adoption process. Ask yourself the following: • Do you understand the adoption process? • What questions do you
- [What Adoption Means to Me-An Adoptive Parent](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/what-adoption-means-to-me-an-adoptive-parent/) - Adoption means that I get to be a Mom. Without adoption it would not have been impossible to have children. They are my children, in every sense of the word. I tuck them in at night, I bandage the boo-boos, and I scare away the monsters under the bed. I am a “Warrior Mom.” Sometimes
- [Talking to Your Child About Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/05/talking-to-your-child-about-adoption-2/) - Your understanding of adoption and how it will impact your child is key to providing a well-balanced, secure foundation for your child. Planning and preparation will allow you to be able to initiate and participate in meaningful dialogue, as needed. Consider the following: · How will you explain adoption to your child? · What resources
- [Being Chosen by a Birthmother](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/being-chosen-by-a-birthmother/) - A question that many adoption parents ask, is "how do birth mothers decide what family to choose to adopt their baby." Some birth parents may have specific criteria in mind for their child. Others may choose a family based on something random that triggers an emotional response or they simply follow their instinct. Birthparents who
- [Well Balanced Adoptive Parents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/well-balanced-adoptive-parents/) - Well balanced adoptive parents acknowledge the differences that adoption brings and can openly discuss issues inherent in adoption within their family unit and with others. Well balanced parents do not blame their child’s or family struggles on adoption, nor do they were blinders where adoption is concerned. They value all members of the adoption tirade
- [Helping Your Child Succeed in Sports](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/helping-your-child-succeed-in-sports/) - Summer fun includes summer sports, sports camps, and a time for athletes to hone their skills and try new things. Chances are that if you have school age children, they have participated in one or more sports. At my teens high school 54 % of the kids participate on a team sport. That is a
- [Adoption Loss](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/adoption-loss/) - Adoption involves loss. All members of the adoption triad are affected. Birth parents experience the loss of a biological child. Adoptive parents may experience infertility and the loss having a biological child, while the adopted child may experience loss of birth parents, siblings, extended family, culture or country. Grief is a normal and natural response
- [Adoption Travel Tips](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/adoption-travel-tips/) - Most Domestic Adoptive Parents travel to a nearby city or to another state to adopt their baby. Adoption travel is the last leg of the adoption journey. The actualization of a family’s hopes and dreams can be both joyful and stressful. Whether you are already matched, or waiting to be matched, it is always a
- [Adoption Travel Packing List](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/adoption-travel-packing-list/) - FOR BABY Formula Bottles (glass or disposable bottles) and nipples (4-6/Sterilized) Bottle brush (drying rack, optional) Burp cloths (washcloths are cheaper) (6) Bibs (3-6) Mylicon for baby gas Pacifier clip (1) Pacifiers (2-4, newborn size/ Sterilized) Disposable diapers (newborn size)8-14 per day Cloth diapers - 3 or 4 Baby wipes (for sensitive skin) Portable changing
- [Birth Mother Support](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/birth-mother-support/) - Most women choose adoption because they want, what they believe is the best option for their child. For most, this is a heart wrenching decision. At Beacon House we respect the choices made by birth families and work diligently to support these choices throughout the adoption process. BHAS’s Domestic Adoption Program is a full service
- [Your Adoption Profile Book](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/04/your-adoption-profile-book-2/) - As part of the adoption process, you will be asked to create a personal profile in the form of a Profile Book. The Profile Book is a picture book with snapshots, and important personal information about you, the adoptive family. You will choose photos that will tell a story about your lives as a whole.
- [Adoptees May Struggle with Feeling Different](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/adoptees-may-struggle-with-feeling-different/) - Being adopted can create many feelings of being different. An adopted child may look differently than their adopted parents or they may be a different race or culture. It is important that differences (real or perceived) be addressed by the adoptive family in a positive way. Adopted Children: •Need to be assured that they are
- [Disrespectful Kids and Teens](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/disrespectful-kids-and-teens/) - We’ve all been there- or will be. Because kid’s brains are still developing, even during the teen years, they sometimes speak or act in a manner that we as parents would approve. “Disrespectful behavior is one of the inappropriate ways kids, especially teenagers, try to solve their problems. Kids can feel powerless in the face
- [Instant Mom](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/instant-mom/) - At the end of My Big Fat Greek Wedding, Nia Vardalos character gives birth to a baby. In real life she was struggling with fertility. “Moments after Nia Vardalos finds out she has been nominated for an Oscar for the screenplay for My Big Fat Greek Wedding, she is alone and en route to a
- [Meeting Your Adopted Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/meeting-your-adopted-baby/) - Deciding to move forward with an adoption is one of the biggest decisions that a family will ever make. The adoption process can be fraught with emotion: alternating between joyful hope, self-doubt, and giddy anticipation. (sometimes all within an hour’s time) None of which can compare to when you actually meet you baby for the
- [Birth  Mother's Day](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/05/birth-mothers-day/) - The Chinese proverb of the red thread says that an invisible red thread connects all those destined to meet; regardless of time, place or circumstance. The thread may stretch or tangle but never break. Our lives as adoptive mothers are forever entangled with our children’s birthmothers. No matter what type of adoption you are in:
- [Funding Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/01/funding-adoption/) - Funding an adoption can sometimes be a roadblock for families who wish to build a family through adoption. Thanks, to an increase in adoption awareness more avenues are available for assistance than ever before and there are many creative ways to help off set the cost of an adoption. When it comes to funding adoption, where
- [Just Relax](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/05/just-relax/) - A tongue and cheek look at the age old comment-that actually can get pretty old. "Just relax, you'll get pregnant." Really? All the relaxation techniques in the world aren't going to relieve, my hopped up on fertility drugs, too much testosterone, stress induced, cortisol producing body. To top it off, all the above contribute to
- [From First to Last](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/05/from-first-to-last/) - If you've ever read any of the Beacon House newsletters or blogs, you might have heard me talk about all the first time events you share with your adopted child: his first smile, the first time he says Mommy, the first birthday party, and first day of school. But this week, as my youngest child approaches
- [Uncle Pete](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/06/uncle-pete/) - Shortly before the adoption of our daughter, my husband’s Great Uncle Pete came to live with my inlaws. Uncle Pete was a widower; Aunt Thea had passed away some 30 years prior and they didn’t have any children.Known as an “Outlaw”, rather than an inlaw because he had married into the family and was not
- [Strong Enough to Overcome](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/07/strong-enough-to-overcome/) - Eleanor Roosevelt said that “ a woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.” This is especially true if you put her in a position where one of the most fundamental elements of being a women are denied: motherhood and infertility are
- [Grandparents and Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/09/grandparents-and-adoption-2/) - How do my parents or in-laws view adoption? Will they accept him as part of the family? Will they view my child differently or treat her different than the other grandchildren? These are all legitimate concerns that prospective adoptive parents have. Even when grandparents are “on board” with the adoption of a grandchild
- [Getting Started with Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/12/getting-started-with-adoption/) - Adoptions can be accomplished with a variety of help. Adoption agencies, attorneys who specialize in adoption, even unlicensed facilitators work with adoptive parents around the world. In order to assure the best chance of success and the least number of problems, adoptive parents must have guidance in choosing who they will entrust with helping them
- [Tips for New Parents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2012/05/tips-for-new-parents/) - • Remain Calm, count to ten, and most importantly, and don’t lose your temper.• Learn the child’s native language. (This was invaluable.)• Remember your child is scared. Try to find ways to reassure and comfort him.• Don’t self diagnose or assume your child has a medical condition, developmental or behavioral disorder based on a short
- [Moving Forward with Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2012/07/moving-forward-with-adoption/) - It’s not unusual to find one spouse ready to start looking at adoption before the other is ready. During this time, it is important to keep the ones of communication open. Acknowledge your spouses reluctance and discuss concerns openly and honestly. If your spouse’s reaction is not what you had expected, they may need more
- [Parenting A Toddler](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2012/08/parenting-a-toddler/) - Approximately forty percent of all children adopted are toddlers between the ages of one and four. Adopting a toddler is not the same as adopting an infant or newborn. Parenting techniques will be different depending on whether you adopt a younger or older toddler. His life experience and developmental level; not chronological age, will determine
- [Pre-Adoption Education](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/07/pre-adoption-education/) - Adoption requires certain educational, cultural, developmental and medical awareness in order to best prepare for the arrival of your child. Proper preparation is essential to the success of the placement and we believe it is vital for adoptive parents to develop an understanding of the complex issues of adoption.Because you are your child’s best advocate,
- [The 7 Core Issues of Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2012/09/the-7-core-issues-of-adoption/) - I was recently thinking about how my teen and some of her friend’s life experience’s may effect there relationships, especially as they enter the dating scene. I decided now might be a good time to review the “7 Core Issues of Adoption” as described, Silverstein and Kaplan. Many members of the adoption tirade describe these
- [Stress Reduction](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2012/11/stress-reduction-2/) - Infertility, adoption, finances, these are all areas that can produce stress, but any form of physical activity can help you unwind and can become an important part of your approach to easing stress. A regular exercise routine not only helps mange stress but it can also help you get ready to carry around your new
- [It’s a Boy Thing](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/07/its-a-boy-thing/) - “It’s just a boy thing” is a phrase I have often heard over the years. It’s often in reference to a multitude of parental concerns including injury at play, high activity level, impulsivity, organizational skills, and more. At the same time I have vehemently denied that gender is an
- [The Cajun Stork](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/07/the-cajun-stork/) - In may of this year, we unexpectedly lost our Cajun Stork, Domestic Adoption Coordinator Margie Mathis, after a valiant battle with an extended illness. Ms Margie started at Beacon House when her mother- in-law; who assisted Birthmothers, asked her to help “take care of her girls while she was on vacation.” She often joked that
- [Single Parent Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/07/single-parent-adoption/) - Adoption is a lifetime commitment that provides the nurturing, love, and security that all children deserve. In order to secure families that provide a stable and nurturing environment for a child, many adoption agencies now recognize that this can be achieved through both two- parent and single parent homes. Single parents adopt for many of
- [Letters to Birthmother's](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/letters-to-birthmothers/) - No matter what type of adoption you are in: international or domestic, your child's birthmother made a difficult choice that has given you a child to love forever. Regardless of their situations, without the courageous decisions of birthmothers around the world, many of us would not be mothers or future mothers. Take a moment to show
- [Post Adoption Depression](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/post-adoption-depression/) - I’ve waited all this time to become a parent, why do I feel so blue?Actually a number of parents do feel a degree of post adoption blues and some will develop post-adoption depression (PAD). The symptoms are the same as those for most forms of depression. They may include fatigue, irritability, loss of appetite, sadness, and
- [Choosing Childcare](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/choosing-childcare/) - If you are returning to work after the adoption of your child, or you need an occasional night out without kids, consider your options and then screen, select, and check references on sitters or programs that you may be more interested in.Your best resources come from other parents. Ask friends, coworkers, your doctor’s office, your
- [Funding Your Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/funding-your-adoption/) - Funding an adoption can sometimes be a roadblock for families who wish to build a family through adoption. Thanks, to an increase in adoption awareness more avenues are available for assistance than ever before and there are many creative ways to help off set the cost of an adoption. When it comes to funding adoption, where
- [Back to School: Talking about Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/back-to-school-talking-about-adoption/) - To tell or not to tell? “How much information do I need to share? Am I being overly sensitive or is my child’s teacher being insensitive? Will my concerns be taken into consideration?” These are all questions adoptive families struggle with when trying to educate teachers and administrators on adoption related issues. Parents have to
- [Pros and Cons of Domestic Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/pros-and-cons-of-domestic-adoption/) - If you're considering a Domestic Adoption, here are a few things to think about. PROS:•Adoptive families can adopt an infant Background information on the child’s birth parents that may include social, educational and health history You are updated regularly on the health of the Birth Mother and baby, throughout the pregnancy Varying degrees of openness, it may be possible to maintain contact with
- [Boys Should Be Boys :7 Secrets to Raising Healthy Sons](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/boys-should-be-boys-7-secrets-to-raising-healthy-sons/) - “In Boys Should Be Boys, one of our most trusted authorities helps parents restore the delights of boyhood and enable today’s boys to become the mature, confident, and thoughtful men of tomorrow. Boys will always be boys–rambunctious, adventurous, and curious, climbing trees, building forts, playing tackle football, and pushing their growing bodies to the limit
- [What is A Semi- Open Adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/08/what-is-a-semi-open-adoption/) - A Semi-Open Adoption is a type of adoption that is not totally open or totally closed. It occurs when birth-parents and adoptive families share non-identifying information or have non- identifying interaction with one another. This interaction is usually facilitated by the adoption agency or adoption attorney. The identity of all parties involved is kept confidential.The degree of
- [Semi-Open Adoption and the Adoptive Parent.](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/semi-open-adoption-and-the-adoptive-parent/) - With semi-open adoption there are a number of advantages for all members of the adoption tirade: birth parents, adoptive parents, and the adopted child. For the adoptive parents, benefits may include access to background information on the child’s birth parents: social, educational, and health history. In semi-open adoption it may also be possible to maintain contact
- [Semi-Open Adoption and the Adopted Child.](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/semi-open-adoption-and-the-adopted-child/) - Each child’s experience with semi open adoption will vary. These variables include the degree of openness, the ability to maintain communication, and the willingness of the adult parties to honor their commitments, to name a few. Advantages that a semi-open adoption may provide to an adopted child may include: Communication with birth familiesNo birth parent/family
- [Semi-Open Adoption and Birthparents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/semi-open-adoption-and-birthparents/) - The degree of openness in a semi-open adoption is pre-determined and agreed upon by both the birthparents and adoptive parents. There are a number of advantages to semi-open adoption for Birthparents. Birthparents may have some degree of control, during the matching process. Birthparents are able to review a ProfileBook, and possibly interview prospective adoptive parents.
- [How Long Does It Take to Adopt Domestically?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/how-long-does-it-take-to-adopt-domestically/) - Chances are that if you have started discussing adoption with friends and family, you've already been told many tale tales, myths and lifetime movie plots. The most common misconception about Domestic Adoption is the wait time. Lay people often mistakenly believe that it takes years to adopt domestically. Most are surprised to learn that most families
- [5 Common Myths about Domestic Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/5-common-myths-about-domestic-adoption/) - Myth- It takes years to complete a domestic adoption.Reality- The average time frame to complete a Domestic Adoption is 1-2 years.Myth- Women who place children for adoption, have abandoned their child, and do so, due to selfish reasons. Reality-Most Birthmother’s choose adoption because they want, what they believe, is the best thing for there child. For
- [Stress Reduction](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/stress-reduction/) - Infertility, adoption, finances, these are all areas that can produce stress, but any form of physical activity can help you unwind and can become an important part of your approach to easing stress. A regular exercise routine not only helps mange stress but it can also help you get ready to carry around your
- [Easy to Love but Hard to Raise](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/easy-to-love-but-hard-to-raise/) - Easy to Love but Hard to Raise: Real Parents, Challenging Kids, True Stories.is an anthology of personal essays written by parents of children with ADD, ADHD, OCD, PDD, ASDS, SPD, PBD and/or other alphabet soup diagnoses that takes the already difficult job of parenting and adds to the challenge.These essays focus on honest feelings and, lessons learned,
- [The Day My Son Gave Up on Me](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/the-day-my-son-gave-up-on-me/) - When my daughter was about five, I remember a day she was clearly frustrated with the amount of time Mommy was spending on the computer. As parents, we all have bad Mommy moments; when there a are not enough hours in the day to finish all our tasks. How we respond to our children during
- [Proper Preparation Makes for a Fun-Filled, Safe Halloween](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/proper-preparation-makes-for-a-fun-filled-safe-halloween/) - Halloween can be a scary, exiting holiday for kids but imaginations may run wild with visions of ghost and goblins dancing in their heads. Prepare children in advance, especially first time celebrants or children who have a tendency towards anxiety or sleep issues. Teach children what is real versus pretend. Start slow and follow your
- [Employee Adoption Benefits](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/employee-adoption-benefits/) - What some people may not know about is Employee Benefits Programs. Many employers offer some form of adoption benefits to their employees, these benefits may include: •Direct reimbursement in the range of $2,000 to $10,000 upon actual placement (usually a flat amount designated for specific adoption expenses)•Paid leave, in addition to or including vacation time, sick
- [Things that Go Bump in the Night](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/things-that-go-bump-in-the-night/) - Halloween is supposed to be a fun fall holiday, but for kids who are experiencing it for the first time it can be scary and overwhelming. Some children have never been trick or treating or never seen someone dressed in a werewolf costume or covered in fake blood. For some, it may seem
- [Supporting Your Child's Dreams](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/supporting-your-childs-dreams/) - It’s a fine line between helping your child pursue his dreams, versus helping them understand the reality of the situation, or in my son’s words “crushing his dreams.” At the time of this conversation my then eleven-year-old who weighed 63 pounds with a growth trajectory of 5’6 or 5’7. He was quite incensed at my
- [Bonding with Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/bonding-with-baby/) - Bonding an attachment are a natural part of the parent /child relationship. The ordinary, daily necessary care that we give our baby facilitates this vital process. Bonding occurs when consistently meeting your babies’ needs. By responding immediately to your baby when he is distressed, you build trust. Overtime he will understand that you will meet
- [Are You Ready to Adopt?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/are-you-ready-to-adopt-2/) - At some point, couples experiencing infertility who want to move forward towards having a family will have to bridge the gap from infertility to adoption by acknowledging and accepting infertility. Couples will have to confront the grief and loss associated with infertility. Resolution prior to adoption is necessary. It provides a strong foundation for couples to
- [Why Choose Beacon House's Domestic Adoption Program?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/10/why-choose-beacon-houses-domestic-adoption-program/) - We work with a limited of number of families at a time.The No Wait List policy- Every family whose criteria matches is eligible to be matched with a potential adoption match.Families are eligible to be Matched once their contracts are executed. Most families complete their adoptions in 1-2 years, 99% of the children we place are infants. In-house recruitment of Birthmothers. Each Birthmother assigned a caseworker responsible for seeing to her needs.Birthmothers are provided
- [Nursery Essentials](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/nursery-essentials/) - When choosing furniture (the crib, dresser, changing table, rocking chair, etc.), think ahead. Ask yourself if it’s something you can use for a second child, if the color is neutral, if it’s convertible, if it can be used in a different room later. Some cribs convert to a toddler, and then a full-size bed. The
- [Adoption Awareness  Activities](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/adoption-awareness-activities/) - Here are my top five favorite activities for celebrating Adoption Awareness Month from Adoptive Families 30 Ways to Celebrate. 1. Coordinate a display of adoption books to commemorate National Adoption Awareness Month at your child’s school or local library2, Organize a holiday toy drive for children waiting for permanent families. Involve your child’s class, team, or
- [Do You Shop Online?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/do-you-shop-online/) - If so we have a great way to do your Christmas shopping and help us at Beacon House raise funds for a number of projects. All you will do is shop online. www.igive.com is a free site and all you have to do is register and shop ... at normal stores like Target, Best Buy, Overstock, Gap,
- [Dear Parent's About THAT Kid......](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/dear-parents-about-that-kid/) - One way or another, we've all been there. There's a kid in your child's class that drives everyone crazy. Everyday your child presents you with a litany of complaints during the car ride home and in bewilderment you shake your head and hope it's not really as bad as she says.Or maybe, you are the
- [A Letter from a Birthmother](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/a-letter-from-a-birthmother/) - Dear Adoptive Parents and Birth Mother, At one of the most trying times in my life, when I did not know which way was up and had nowhere to turn, the staff at Beacon House Adoption Services was there for me with an attentive
- [Picky Eaters/Parenting Mistakes](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/picky-eatersparenting-mistakes/) - Do you have a picky eater? Does your child's eating habits stress you out? This Thanksgiving, don't make these common mistakes. Six Food Mistakes Parents Make, Posted By Dr. Mercola1. Sending Children Out of the Kitchen2. Pressuring Them to Take a Bite3. Keeping “Good Stuff” Out of Reach4. Dieting in Front of Your Children5. Serving Boring Vegetables6. Giving Up Too
- [The Four Factors of Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/11/the-four-factors-of-adoption/) - The four primary factors to consider when deciding which type adoption of adoption is best for you are: age, race, medical/health and cost.Age as a factor includes your age, the age of the child you want to adopt, and the age of other children in your home. Do you want to adopt a child of
- [Talking to Your Child About Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/12/talking-to-your-child-about-adoption/) - We often get asked for advice on when should I talk to the child about their adoption? There are many approaches and suggestions, but we believe in being open about it from the beginning. Using the language, helping the child to understand and embrace they were chosen and placed in your family because they are
- [Christmas Shopping with Children](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/12/christmas-shopping-with-children/) - It’s the holidays; you've got Christmas shopping to do. The hustle and bustle is more than enough to make an adults head spin. Imagine the sensory overload that your child must be experiencing: Christmas music blasting, glimpses of Santa, visions of Sugarplum dancing in their heads. If you can, the best thing you can do, is leave your
- [Spending Quality Time](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/12/spending-quality-time/) - We love all activities with our family and children. It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the holidays and focus on quantity, not quality time. Quality time isn't just an activity with your child. It is one on one, undivided attention. No television - no cell phone - no
- [Adoption Transition, Bringing Baby Home](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/01/adoption-transition-bringing-baby-home/) - Step back and consider that although you and your home have been preparing for bringing baby home, the child had no transition time - One day - there you were, and everything the baby/child was familiar with changed. So what should you do if child is having some difficulty adjusting?The most important thing you can
- [Letter from a Birth Mother](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/01/letter-from-a-birth-mother/) - Dear Adoptive Parents and Birth Mother, At one of the most trying times in my life, when I did not know which way was up and had nowhere to turn, the staff at Beacon House Adoption Services was there for me with an attentive ear and an open heart. Soon my unborn child and I were
- [Make 2015 a year to remember!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/01/make-2015-a-year-to-remember/) - It is no coincidence that many families choose to begin their adoption process after the New Year. After all, it is often seen as a time of renewal- or a time for a new beginning. In 2015, we will have families who become first time parents. Others will build their families through adoption and some
- [Making a Christmas Tradition](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/12/making-a-christmas-tradition/) - This is one of my favorite Holiday traditions !A New Take on a Russian Tradition A favorite Russian Christmas Eve Traditions is “ The Holy Supper." The family gathers around the table to honor the coming Christ Child. A white table-cloth, symbolic of Christ's swaddling clothes, covers the Table. Hay is brought in as a reminder
- [Why Choose Beacon House?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/01/why-choose-beacon-house/) - Beacon House Adoption Services, Inc. is a Licensed Non-profit, 501(c) (3) Adoption Agency, specializing in Domestic Infant Adoption. For more than 25 years BHAS has work diligently to serve all members of the adoption triad. About Beacon House · Established in 1989· More than 5,500 adoption completed· More than 75 years combined experience · Low staff turnover· Licensed in multiple states and regional offices. Domestic Infant Adoption·
- [BHAS: A Full Service Agency](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/01/bhas-a-full-service-agency/) - BHAS’s Domestic Adoption Program is a full service process that takes a family from the start of adoption to its completion, including finalization services, emotional support, birth mother outreach, and all services involved in completing a legal adoption. This includes:Semi-Open or Closed AdoptionsGuidelines to creating a family profileExpert staffExperienced legal staffDocuments ProcessingAdoption HomestudiesParent in Progress
- [Adoption Resources](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/02/adoption-resources/) - Sometimes finding resources for adoption can be challenging. If you are looking for resources in our community, here is a list of ideas to get you started:How to Find Resources as an Adoptive ParentHow and where to find the right resources for your children.http://adoption.com/find-resources-adoptive-parent/ Don't forget that your adoption agency and/or the social worker who
- [Building Attachment](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/02/building-attachment/) - Attachment is a learned behavior that allows people to have significance to one another. It occurs over time through the consistency of the parent to meet the physical and emotional needs of the child. Secure attachment enables a child to develop a sense of safety and security, identity formation, logical thinking, socialization, and
- [Attachment: Be Sensory Rich](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/02/attachment-be-sensory-rich/) - Be Sensory Rich: appeal to your child’s senses. Children and babies are sensitive to smell, and like most kids can be comforted by a familiar aroma. Babies are sensitive babies, they may be hypersensitive to stimulus. Providing a calm and nurturing environment for the baby may mean you need to incorporate soft lighting. Be gentle, speak gently. The volume
- [Attachment: Feeding Your Child](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/02/attachment-feeding-your-child/) - Mary Hopkins- Best, author of Toddler Adoption Says that “Food is the most essential element in bonding and attachment.” Put babies’ needs ahead of your own. When possible, follow a schedule based on your baby’s cues. Feeding on your schedule or removing bottles before the baby finishes will not facilitate attachment. The more responsive
- [Attachment: Play with Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/02/attachment-play-with-baby/) - Playing with your child naturally builds the parent child attachment. Interact with your baby by smiling and mimicking his coos. Play peek-a-boo, act silly. When you get a positive reaction from your baby, she’s letting you know that your nurturing techniques were successful. If your child is unresponsive, respond as if he has reacted
- [Attachment: Establish the Primary Caretaker](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/03/attachment-establish-the-primary-caretaker/) - In order to form healthy attachments, you must first establish the primary caretaker. Your child needs to be able to identify you and your spouse in this role. For the first month or two, you need to be the one who provides, food, comfort, soothing, affection, etc. During this time, nest with your new
- [Attachment: Be Predictable](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/03/attachment-be-predictable/) - Be Predictable. Your child needs to know that when he needs you, you’ll be there. Promptly respond to his cries, yells, or calls. This is the fundamental basis of attachment. Create a RoutineCreate rituals and routines. Routines are reassuring and help a child built increases confidence. Don’t rush to change feeding or nap times.
- [Attachment: Post Adoption Blues](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/03/attachment-post-adoption-blues/) - A number of parents feel a degree of post adoption blues and some will develop post-adoption depression (PAD). The symptoms are the same as those for most forms of depression. They may include fatigue, irritability, loss of appetite, sadness, and a general sense of being overwhelmed. Finalizing an adoption is an emotional climax and the stress may be
- [Attachment: Seek Help as Needed](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/03/attachment-seek-help-as-needed/) - Remember you are your child’s best advocate. No one knows your child like you do. If your child is struggling, academically, behaviorally, or socially, follow your instincts and seek help as needed. It may be necessary to seek out professionals who have some experience with adopted children. Resources may include:PediatricianDevelopmental PediatricianUniversity Adoption ClinicChild
- [Adoptive Parenting](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/03/adoptive-parenting/) - Adoptive Parenting is different than parenting birth children. Most people who have not adopted don’t recognize the differences. Fundamental differences include a child’s chronological age, his developmental age and the age of the family (how long the family has been together) nature versus nurture, and expectations versus realities. Parenting adopted children, especially those with
- [April Showers](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/april-showers/) - From time to time, I hear people ask whether it is appropriate to throw a shower for an adopted child. That answer is a resounding YES! It is a perfectly acceptable practice to throw a shower for an adopted child.While pregnancy is an exciting time for a mother-to-be, it is equally exciting or perhaps even
- [2 Mom's and an IEP](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/2-moms-and-an-iep/) - Two Moms are walking into IEP meetings. One resents the fact that she has to go to an IEP for her child. She had to take time off from work, the meetings are always the same, nothing really helps and she is angry and frustrated. This is not what she bargained for. The other Mom
- [Ten Easy Steps to Building your Family.](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/ten-easy-steps-to-building-your-family/) - Ten easy steps to building your family through adoption. Research Adoption ProgramsChoose an agency Submit the applicationExecute the ContractGather required documentsComplete your home study Create a Portfolio or DossierComplete your Pre-adoption educationWait to be matchedBring Your Baby Home
- [How to Communicate with your Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/how-to-communicate-with-your-baby/) - As your baby is growing and learning, the ways in which you can communicate with each other are rapidly increasing. This makes understanding one another so much easier. "Babies don’t always understand words. But you can still communicate with your baby using tone of voice, touch and body language."Here are a couple of ideas on how
- [HELP IS AVAILABLE](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/help-is-available/) - We at Beacon House know that sometimes life does not happen just the way we plan it. If you are now experiencing a pregnancy that you did not plan for, you know that you have options. One of those options is adoption certainly a difficult choice, a brave and unselfish act that gives life to
- [A Full Service Adoption Program](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/a-full-service-adoption-program/) - Our commitment to our Domestic Adoption program includes a higher level of interaction between client and staff, streamlining document processing, birthmother assistance, and more personalized services to our adoptive families.BHAS’s Domestic Adoption Program is a full service process that takes a family from the start of adoption to its completion, including finalization services, emotional support,
- [Birthparent Support](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/birthparent-support/) - Most Women choose adoption because they want, what they believe is the best option for their child. For most, this is a heart wrenching decision. At Beacon House we respect the choices made by birth families and work diligently to support these choices throughout the adoption process.BHAS’s Domestic Adoption Program is a full service process
- [Bithmothers and Mother's Day](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/bithmothers-and-mothers-day/) - Regardless of what type of adoption you are in: international or domestic, as adoptive mother’s our lives are forever entangled with our children’s birthmothers. Your child’s birthmother made a difficult choice that has given you a child to love forever. Without her, many of us would not be mothers. I am humbled and at the strength of
- [Beacon House Team Tennis Challenge](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/beacon-house-team-tennis-challenge/) - Beacon House Team Tennis Challenge - September 25, 3015 to September 27, 2015Tournament DetailsExciting! The Beacon House Annual Team Tennis Challenge is coming early this year! September is the month, with great weather for tennis. We invite any local businesses to be a part of this event by being a sponsor.Beacon House has provided professional
- [What not to say to an Adoptive Mom](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/what-not-to-say-to-an-adoptive-mom/) - We've all heard them........
- [Talking to Children about Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/talking-to-children-about-adoption/) - A child's feelings about adoption are complex. They effect every part of his self: personal identity, self-confidence, and their understanding of who they are, and where they came form. Understanding these thoughts, feelings, and responses can be challenging for both adoptees and adoptive parents. Being adopted can create many feelings of being different. Children need to understand
- [Choosing A Pediatrician](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/choosing-a-pediatrician/) - Choosing a pediatrician is an important step in your child’s healthcare plan. A pediatrician will be your child’s primary physician. Select a pediatrician in advance of your baby’s arrival and schedule an initial consultation. You will want to schedule a well-baby visit for within 48 hours of arriving home with your n baby. Your pediatrician
- [When do I Call the Pediatrician?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/05/when-do-i-call-the-pediatrician/) - As a new parent, trying to determine whether your child is sick (or sick enough) and whether you should contact the pediatrician can be tricky. Always follow the physicians advise and when in doubt seek help. Reasons to call the pediatrician or other health-care resources may include:· Your child looks and acts sick.· Your
- [Grief in Teens and Adolescents](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/06/grief-in-teens-and-adolescents/) - How Teens and Adolescents Express Grief Physical symptoms (headaches, stomachaches)HypochondriaMood swings/IrritabilityVerbally expresses emotionsFeelings of helplessness and hopelessness Increase in risk-taking and self-destructive behaviorsAnger, aggressive behavior, fighting; oppositionalSocial Withdrawal, Withdrawal from adultsSleeping and eating disorders DepressionInability to concentrateIdentity confusionTest LimitsWays to Help Teens and Tweens Recognize that they will experience mood swings and physical symptoms.Encourage them to acknowledge their
- [Sleep and Adopted Children](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/07/sleep-and-adopted-children/) - Are you ready for an afternoon nap? Are your little ones making you sleep deprived? Did you know many adopted children have sleep issues? You may have noticed from the very beginning that your child has a hard time going to sleep, or they may experience increasing difficulty in falling sleeping. Approximately 25% of all
- [The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/07/the-10-habits-of-happy-mothers/) - The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers: Reclaiming Our Passion, Purpose, and Sanity"Mothers are expected to do it all: raise superstar kids, look great, make good salaries, keep an immaculate house, be the perfect wife. In this rallying cry for change, Meg Meeker, M.D., uses her twenty-five years’ experience as a practicing pediatrician and counselor to show
- [Inside Transracial Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/08/inside-transracial-adoption/) - Inside Transracial Adoption, Strength-based, Culture-sensitizing Parenting Strategies for Inter-country or Domestic Adoptive Families That Don't "Matchby Gail Steinberg and Beth HallThis book "Contains six sections, each with an annotated list of suggested reading. Through a combination of personal anecdotes, condensed research findings, quotes by trans-racially adopted persons, and bite-size narratives, the writing is accessible and sometimes even lighthearted. While
- [Back to School](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/08/back-to-school/) - Buying school supplies, first day jitters, maneuvering the lunch line, etc., are just a few challenges kids and parents are faced with at back to school. Adopted children may face additional challenges with school projects involving baby pictures, timelines, genetics or even world studies. This was the opening line of an "autobiography" written by our
- [Talking with Teachers](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/08/talking-with-teachers/) - Talking with Teachersby Julie Drew, from"© 2010 Heart of the Matter Seminars”“Starting a new school year can be an exciting yet stressful time for any family. Every child and parent needs time to get comfortable with a new teacher and a different set of expectations. It also takes teachers time to get to know each
- [New Grandmother](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/new-grandmother/) - If you are worried about how your parents or in-laws will feel about adoption, check out this video to see how one woman finds out she is a new Grandma via adoption.http://www.upworthy.com/she-opened-up-a-gift-bag-and-learned-she-was-a-grandma-her-reaction-is-the-best?c=ufb1
- [Older Parent Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/older-parent-adoption/) - My friend Wendy (an adoptive Mom) says “you spend your 20’s trying not to get pregnant, your 30’s trying to get pregnant and when you hit the 40’s, decide to adopt.” When we started looking into the adoption process some 15 years ago, the information we received from the local department of social services, specifically mentioned
- [Feeling Different](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/feeling-different/) - Being adopted can create many feelings of being different. An adopted child may look differently than their adopted parents or they may be a different race or culture. It is important that differences (real or perceived) be addressed by the adoptive family in a positive way.
- [Communicating  with your baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/communicating-with-your-baby/) - "You might think talking doesn’t start until your baby is older. In fact, babies communicate from birth through crying, eye contact and listening. When you talk and communicate with your "baby, you build baby’s language – and your relationship too."http://raisingchildren.net.au/articles/newborn_talking.html
- [PREGNANT ?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/09/pregnant/) - We at Beacon House know that sometimes life does not happen just the way we plan it. If you are now experiencing a pregnancy that you did not plan for, you know that you have options. One of those options is adoption.Adoption can be a difficult decision, but it is also a brave and unselfish
- [Yes, I'm Adopted!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/09/yes-im-adopted/) - Yes, I'm Adopted! by Sharlie Zinniger "Yes, adoption makes me special, it means that I am loved...""This brightly colored children's book illustrates how adoption is brought about by love. Written from a child's point of view, the rhyming verse takes you through an adoption journey from start to finish. It is perfect for anyone, young or
- [I am Alive](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/09/i-am-alive/) - Before my teen had her own smartphone, she downloaded an Instagram account on my phone. Being said owner of phone came with privileges: some might call them stalking rights. Occasionally, when boredom set in; in the carpool line, waiting at ballet, etc., I would scroll through Instagram. I learned a lot about the world of
- [Adoption Is a Family Affair!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/08/adoption-is-a-family-affair/) - Adoption Is a Family Affair! What Relatives and Friends Must KnowBy Patricia Irwin Johnston"If someone you care about—a family member, co-worker, or close friend—has recently announced that their family will be growing through adoption, you may have questions. After all, unless you have personally experienced adoption, you may know very little about how adoption works and what
- [ADOPTION WORKSHOP](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/09/adoption-workshop/) - OPEN HOUSE/ ADOPTION WORKSHOPFriday, September 25, 10am-12pmBHAS, 5917 Jones Creek Rd, Baton Rouge, LALead by Adoption Educator, Linda Shreve, and Information and Media Specialist , Denise Hoppenhauer, this FREE adoption workshop will give you a thorough overview of BHAS's Domestic Adoption Program.If you are in the South Louisiana or Mississippi Gulf Coast area and are considering adoption, this
- [Team Tennis Challenge 2015](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/09/team-tennis-challenge-2015/) - Beacon House Team Tennis Challenge September 25, 3015 to September 27, 2015Tournament DetailsExciting! The Beacon House Annual Team Tennis Challenge is coming early this year! September is the month, with great weather for tennis. We invite any local businesses to be a part of this event by being a sponsor.Beacon House has provided professional and caring
- [A Beautiful Picture](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/a-beautiful-picture/) - "Thousands of adoptions happen every year in this country. In every single case, a child is told in effect, "I choose you." It's a picture of God's love toward us (Roman 5:8). In adoption, a parent doesn't choose a child because of merit or based on what he might bring to the family. You choose
- [October is Sudden Infant Death Syndrome Awareness Month](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/october-is-sudden-infant-death-syndrome-awareness-month/) - “Health care providers and researchers don't know the exact causes of SIDS, but they do know methods to help reduce the risk of SIDS and other sleep-related SUID” According to the CDC, these include the following :Always place babies on their backs to sleep for every sleep.Use a firm sleep surface, such as a mattress
- [Ghost of Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/10/ghost-of-adoption/) - Many members of the adoption triad are haunted by ghost. For some it’s the starts on the path of infertility, for others it’s unsuccessful IFV or miscarriages. The death of a child or death of a dream can be eerily similar in the processing of grief and loss. Adoptive parents may be haunted by a
- [Babies First Thanksgiving](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/11/babies-first-thanksgiving/) - Between age four to six months, babies are ready to eat solid foods. Once your baby can sit with support and has lost her extrusion reflex: the one that causes her to push out her tongue, then she can take food from a spoon. She’ll probably start showing interest in other people’s food, making chewing and will
- [November is Adoption Awareness Month](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/11/november-is-adoption-awareness-month/) - For more than twenty years, the adoption community has observed November as National Adoption Month. What was originally started to help educate the public about adoption, and to help bring attention to hundreds of thousands of waiting children in North America, is now a time to celebrate adoption, the diversity of the family, and understanding the
- [3 Reasons Not to Adopt](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/11/3-reasons-not-to-adopt/) - Over the course of many years, we have heard many reasons why families don’t pursue an adoption. Once you get past the fear factor, the three most common ones are I’m not rich, I’m not married, and I don’t own my own home. You don’t have to be rich to adopt, nor do you have
- [Famous Adoptees](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/11/famous-adoptees/) - As parents we all think that our children are going to grow up and be famous one day. For some parents that dream comes true. Take a look at some of these famous adoptees.
- [I am Thankful](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/11/i-am-thankful/) - If you are a Facebook or social media user, you may have seen that your friends have been posting daily, something that they are thankful for. Here are a few of my favorites: I am thankful for adoption, without it we would not be a family.I am thankful for my children’s birthparents; who choose life.I am thankful for
- [Amazon Smile](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/06/amazon-smile/) - What is AmazonSmile?AmazonSmile is a simple and automatic way for you to support your favorite charitable organization every time you shop, at no cost to you. Tens of millions of products on AmazonSmile are eligible for donations. You use your same account on Amazon.com and AmazonSmile. When you shop at Amazon, the AmazonSmile Foundation will donate 0.5% of the
- [Adoption - The Gift of Life](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/11/adoption-the-gift-of-life/) - With your support, we are able to help women who are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and considering adoption, aid in community initiatives that support at risk children, and move further towards our goal of purchasing a residence for in-house care of expectant parents. Donate today to help support these initiatives: https://www.gofundme.com/beaconhouseadopt
- [How to Dress Your Baby in the Summer](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/07/how-to-dress-your-baby-in-the-summer/) - Too much material, too many layers, exposed skin, bare feet, sunscreen? Choosing the right clothing is essential whether indoors or out. For helpful hints on how to keep your baby cool and comfortable in warmer weather see: http://bit.ly/1iTh7z9 Summer Packing List for Babies and ToddlersDiapers, wipes, disposable changing pads, diaper rash creamFirst aid
- [Are we there yet?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/04/are-we-there-yet/) - Chances are, that even if you didn't plan a Spring Break getaway, you are planing a summer vacation. Vacations are supposed to be fun, but traveling with a young child can also present many challenges. One of those is boredom or I should say boredom initiated, irritability: are we there yet, she’s touching me, he’s
- [Safety First](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/07/safety-first/) - Sooner or later it happens to all of us, you turn around in the store and your child is no longer in view. Your breathe catches in your throat, you start to perspire, and just at the first wave of nausea, you hear a little voice say “Mom, look what I found!”Unfortunately, the reality is
- [Water Safety](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/07/water-safety/) - Once you have childproofed your home, you will realize that the great outdoors presents a whole new set of problems. When outdoors, babies or toddlers should never be left unsupervised especially if there is a water: a hot tub, swimming pool, ornamental garden pond, or even a kiddy pool. Always follow strict water
- [Family, Festivals & Fireworks](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/07/family-festivals-fireworks/) - Celebrating the Fourth of July is a national tradition and is a great way to continue building family traditions for your family and your kids. Summer fun has started, trips to the park, the pool, the zoo, and of course summer camp are in full swing. As the sun heats up, it is always a
- [Merry Christmas](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/12/merry-christmas/) - “I am thinking of you today because it is Christmasand I wish you happiness. And tomorrow, because it will be the day after Christmas,I shall still wish you happiness.My thoughts and my wishes will be with you always.Whatever joy comes to you will make me glad.All through the year, I wish you the spirit of Christmas.”HENRY
- [Parenting: what your kids don't need](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/01/parenting-what-your-kids-dont-need/) - As a parent, I have to decide what my kids need, versus what my kids want. I have to decide what is necessary to help nurture and raise a self sufficient, responsible adult, and what could potentially be problematic. "7 Things Your Kids Absolutely Do Not Need in the New Year " is a great list to jump start your parenting in
- [Tripe Recess Equals Big Results](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/01/tripe-recess-equals-big-results/) - Texas School Triples Recess Time And Sees Immediate Positive Results In Kids"A Texas school started giving children four recess breaks a day, and teachers and parents say the results have been wonderful."http://www.scarymommy.com/texas-school-triples-recess-time-and-sees-immediate-positive-results-in-kids/
- [Your Adoption Profile Book](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/01/your-adoption-profile-book/) - As part of the adoption process, you will be asked to create a personal profile in the form of a Profile Book. The Profile Book is a picture book with snapshots, and important personal information about you, the adoptive family. You will choose photos that will tell a story about your lives as a whole.
- [Unplanned Pregnancy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/01/unplanned-pregnancy/) - We at Beacon House know that sometimes life does not happen just the way we plan it. If you are now experiencing a pregnancy that you did not plan for, you know that you have options. One of those options is adoption.Adoption can be a difficult decision, but it is also a brave and unselfish
- [Is Domestic Adoption right for me?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/01/is-domestic-adoption-right-for-me/) - PROS:· Adoptive Families can adopt an infant.· Background information on the child’s birth parents that may include a social, educational and health history.· At Beacon House, you are updated regularly on the health of the Birth Mother and Baby, throughout the pregnancy.· There are varying degrees of openness, it may be possible to maintain contact
- [Domestic Adoption- Legally Risky?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/01/domestic-adoption-legally-risky/) - A popular misconception of domestic adoptions is that they are legally risky. Fueled by overwhelmingly negative media coverage, and every little old ladies adoption gone wrong story- that they must share, it’s no wonder prospective adoptive parents often worry about risk. While there are no mandatory reporting requirements, experts estimate that in reality, less than one
- [Because I’m a Mom](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/because-im-a-mom/) - "The Invisible Burden that leaves Moms drained"Why are Mom’s emotionally exhausted? The short answer is because Mom’s are responsible for kin-keeping responsibilities; birthdays, who gave the that dress to little Susie, writing Thank You notes, etc. The question is what can you do to reclaim your time and energy? http://pickanytwo.net/the-invisible-burden-that-leaves-moms-drained/?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=socialnetwork
- [Read to Me](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/read-to-me/) - Babies and children benefit from being read to. Children's books come in all shapes and sizes. Grab a book, snuggle up on the sofa and reap the many benefits of reading to your child. These include: Babies learn to make a connection between a word and its meaning which is vital to language development.Reading to babies expands vocabulary
- [Dance Helps the Brain to Learn](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/dance-helps-the-brain-to-learn/) - Have you considered dance classes for your children? If so, there are increasing amounts of scientific that support "dance improves academic performance". "Research shows that dance activity registers in regions of the brain responsible for cognition." Essentially, the training young dancers receive helps them to become better learners in the classroom. According to Judith Lynne Hanna, PhD, author of "Dancing to
- [The Adoption Homestudy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2014/09/the-adoption-homestudy/) - An Adoption Homestudy is an important, step of adoption. It is a required, detailed written report of your family compiled, and prepared by a social worker. Everyone who wishes to adopt must complete an adoption homestudy, regardless of what type of adoption they are doing.The homestudy process requires the prospective adoptive family to gather documents,
- [The Adoption Finance Coaching System](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/the-adoption-finance-coaching-system/) - Adoption financial planning is becoming more critical for families as revenue sources become more limited and costs are rising. Families need to prepare for the costs associated with adopting.Beacon House is the first, full-service agency offering theAdoption Finance Coaching SystemA proven, ground-breaking system helping our families with alternative ways to finance their dreams!Benefits Include:· 12
- [Screen Time and Kids](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/screen-time-and-kids/) - Children and teens need to be monitored and have limitations to the amount of screen time they spend each day. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends: Limit entertainment based screen time to under 2 hours for persons over age 2.Avoid all electronic entertainment for children under age 2.Establish "screen-free" zones and times, for example in bedrooms and
- [Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/interstate-compact-on-the-placement-of-children/) - A reciprocal State law that governs the movement of children across state lines for adoption is the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children. (ICPC) If a family is from one state, and the baby they wish to adopt is born in another, the family travels to the sending state to accept placement of the
- [Confidential Adoptions](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/confidential-adoptions/) - Because we at Beacon House believe that the confidential nature of adoption is paramount, the majority of adoptions that we complete are Semi-Open Adoptions. The degree of openness or privacy is dependent on the needs and desires of the birthparents. Through non-identifying, sharing of information, usually in the form of a Profile Book, This gives
- [Talking with Baby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/talking-with-baby/) - "You might think talking doesn’t start until your baby is older. In fact, babies communicate from birth through crying, eye contact and listening. When you talk and communicate with your baby, you build baby’s language – and your relationship too." For info on: Babies first communication How
- [10 Holiday Stressors](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2015/12/10-holiday-stressors/) - While holidays are great time to spend quality time with friends and family it can also be overwhelming to kids with sensory, processing, learning, attention, or impulse control issues. 10 Holiday Stressors for Kids With Learning and Attention IssuesBy Amanda Morin, Understood.org https://www.understood.org/en/family/events-outings/holidays-celebrations/10-holiday-stressors-for-kids-with-learning-and-attention-issues
- [Beneath the Mask: Understanding Adopted Teens](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/beneath-the-mask-understanding-adopted-teens/) - “A first-of-its-kind book unmasks the disguises that teens hide behind as they transition from childhood to adulthood. Learn why - and how - the adolescent struggle to form one's identity is even more complex for teens who were adopted. Discover the six most common adoption "stuck spots”." See more: http://amzn.to/1PSvcYn
- [Moving Forward](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/02/moving-forward/) - Making the decision to adopt can be a lot like being on monkey bars; especially if you have experienced infertility or miscarriages before moving forward.
- [Is Your Company an Adoption Friendly Workplace?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/is-your-company-an-adoption-friendly-workplace/) - Is your company an adoption friendly workplace? Many employers offer some form of adoption benefits to their employees, these benefits may include: Direct reimbursement in the range of $2,000 to $10,000 upon actual placement (usually a flat amount designated for specific adoption expenses) Paid leave, in addition to or including vacation time, sick leave, or
- [Adoptees and Intrusive Questions](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2016/03/adoptees-and-intrusive-questions/) - A continued frustration of many adoptees is how often they are asked intrusive questions. A person who was not adopted has limited understanding how difficult these questions can. Questions may be related to the adoptive parents or the adoptees personal adoption story. Adopted children may not be prepared to share and unsure how to answer.
- [Adopting a Toddler](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/04/adopting-a-toddler/) - Great resources are an abundance thanks to the internet - and that goes for books too. Another great, and incredibly insightful book is by our very own Denise Hoppenhauer. Densie penned Adopting a Toddler:What Size Does She Wear? after walking through her own adoption experience.During her journey, Denise was able to find plenty of information
- [16th Annual Ametz Conference](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/04/16th-annual-ametz-conference/) - This pass Sunday, in Manhattan, more than 100 adoptive and prospective adoptive families and adoption professionals, gathered at the 16th Annual Ametz adoption conference to learn more about adoption. Ametz provided some great information on those who are looking into the possibility of extending their family through adopting. Beacon House's own Denise Hoppenhauer was one
- [Russian Adoptions: Still Ongoing](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/05/russian-adoptions-still-ongoing/) - It is a relief to many people world wide to know that they are still able to bring home a piece of their family from Russia. Russian adoptions are still ongoing as of today - and have not ceased as some news reports have stated.It is highly sensitive right now, and even though a proposal
- [When & How to Talk to a Child about Being Adopted](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/05/when-how-to-talk-to-a-child-about-being-adopted/) - We often get asked for advice on when should I talk to the child about their adoption? There are many approaches and suggestions, but we believe in being open about it from the beginning. Using the language, helping the child to understand and embrace they were chosen and placed in your family because they are
- [Bonding with Your Child: It's Bedtime!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/06/bonding-with-your-child-its-bedtime/) - Bedtime Routine: A child's bedtime routine offers exactly that : routine, which in most children [and adults] brings enormous comfort. Almost everyone, old and young have one, and can tell you what their routine was as a child.Using this time to build on verbal affirmation is some times easier for the child to accept [if
- [Bonding with Your Child: Hugs & Kisses](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/06/bonding-with-your-child-hugs-kisses/) - So this isn't exactly about hugs and kisses, more like bonding with your child through physical touch. Research shows that children/babies who are hugged, kissed, held, etc. develop a healthier emotional life - and this means a better decision making process as the child grows into an adult. Just opposite, children who are not hugged
- [Happy Father's Day!](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/06/happy-fathers-day/) - There are so many fun ways to celebrate the father's day - but the most important thing to remember is it's the quality time with the family that makes the day extra special! Making dad breakfast in bed, surprising him with an afternoon family fishing trip, or going to the ball park with the family
- [Your Adoption Journey Necklace](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/09/your-adoption-journey-necklace/) - So yes, it's been a couple of weeks, but it's time to get back on the horse and get back to blogging. :)There are several amazing blogs out there to follow .... and through one of our favorites, Mrs. Kelle Hampton, I found the cutest and incredibly vintage like charm necklaces made by Bel Kai
- ["The Power of Words: Introduction"](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/10/the-power-of-words-introduction/) - "Sticks and Stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" ..... that's a quote we've all heard, and probably also have realized isn't necessarily true. Words carry weight. They can create impressions, images, and expectations. Words build psychological connections. They influence how we think. Since thoughts determine actions, there must be a
- [Domestic Versus International Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/07/domestic-versus-international-adoption/) - Deciding to move forward with an adoption is often the culmination of a lot of time, research, and soul searching. When it’s time to choose, there are many reasons why people decide domestic versus international adoption. When it comes to adoption, there is no right or wrong. It is an extremely personal decision and adoptive
- [The Reluctant Dad](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/06/the-reluctant-dad/) - The Reluctant Dad originally ran in the Beacon House, June 2009, Newsletter. We received such positive response that we have ran every year since. D.Hoppenhauer The Reluctant Dad Other than the infertility issues we have experienced, everything is good. Why change that? My wife wants to adopt, but I’m not sure. Do I want to
- [Update on Russia: March 2011](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/03/update-on-russia-march-2011/) - Despite a lot of misinformation about Russian adoption, it continues to be one of the most well established and consistent adoption programs. Since 1999 when we began the adoption process to adopt our first child, Russia has never issued a moratorium on adoption. There have been times when adoption has slowed down and sped up,
- [Employee Adoption Benefits](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/01/employee-adoption-benefits-2/) - What some people may not know about is Employee Benefits Programs. Many employers offer some form of adoption benefits to their employees, these benefits may include: •Direct reimbursement in the range of $2,000 to $10,000 upon actual placement (usually a flat amount designated for specific adoption expenses)•Paid leave, in addition to or including vacation time, sick
- [10 Things Every Adoptive Parent Should Know](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2011/01/10-things-every-adoptive-parent-should-know/) - Our friends over at Grown In My Heart adoption forum posted this amazing and insightful post concerning adoptive families and a bit of must know info. I think it's a quick and easy must read for anyone interested in adoption, in the process, or even complete adoptive families. Enjoy!1. Love is the most important part
- [IGIVE Challenge](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/12/igive-challenge/) - Take a minute to help us out over at this link:http://www.igive.com/welcome/warm_reg_promo.cfm?c=48782For each person who joins iGive using the special link below and does just one qualified web search on our site between Thursday at 9.a.m. CST and 12:00 Noon CST Friday, they will give Beacon House Adoption Services a dollar. 5,000 new members, $5,000 donated.
- ["The Power of Words: Reaping what you Sow"](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/11/the-power-of-words-reaping-what-you-sow/) - As we saw [here] it starts with your thoughts - and learning to control those can lead to success in ensuring positive words come from our mouth. There are two things that come from our lips. Life or death, blessing or cursing, encouragement or tearing down, and above all it is our choice.Some of us
- ["The Power of Words: Going Verbal Part 2"](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/10/the-power-of-words-going-verbal-part-2/) - One of the most compelling pieces of scientific research that shows the physical effects of the power of the wordis that of Japanese scientist Dr. Masaru Emoto.Dr. Emoto created a method to freeze water samples in Petri dishes in such a way that the surface tension formsdrops of ice in the dishes about one millimeter
- [Russian Adoption: Update](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/10/russian-adoption-update/) - A US-Russian adoption treaty is in sight, according to UPI.com.http://www.upi.com. This of course comes after months of looking into the current state of Russian adoptions by United States parents. The United States is one of the largest source for adoptions of the Russian children who are available for adoption. [To learn more about the state
- [Andrew's Story](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/10/andrews-story/) - At Beacon House Adoption, we truly become family with our families that choose to adopt using our services. We honestly end up falling in love with them, getting to watch them, and be a part of their dream, ... a part of their story. Sometimes, when I am just sitting and thinking about what we
- ["Acts of Service"](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/07/acts-of-service/) - We've been looking at The Five Love Languages in an overview concept of learning how to be better communicators with our children, our spouse, and those around us.If your child, or someone you know, primarily communicates love through the language of acts of service, you will notice they are incredibly appreciative and fulfilled by you
- [Receiving Gifts](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/07/receiving-gifts/) - Who doesn't love to receive gifts? Well, the truth is, for some receiving a gift is the very thing that helps to fill their 'love tank'. It isn't so much what the gift is, as the thought and effort one puts into thinking of them - that is what helps them feel LOVED.This love language
- ["Words of Affirmation"](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/07/words-of-affirmation/) - So what exactly does "words of affirmation" mean or include? It is positive verbal compliments, reassurance, and of course hearing "I Love You" is a necessity for the person whose primary love language is verbal affirmation. Hearing why you are loved, or what the person thinks is wonderful about you, does wonders in keeping your
- [Russian Adoption: Testimonial](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/06/russian-adoption-testimonial/) - Knowing the agency you have chosen to adopt through is vital.....and from time to time, here, you will find testimonials. You can view many client vidoes, read amazing love filled stories and testimonials on our main page.Here is Lisa & Scott's story:"Lisa and I cannot thank you enough for Beacon House's extreme efforts in the
- [Raising Money for Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/06/raising-money-for-adoption/) - As with most things in life - there are an abundance of choices to help you combat the expense of adoption. A friend of mine, who is in the process of an international adoption, is taking the garage sale to the next level. We have all heard of having a garage sale to bring in
- [Gage's Story](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/05/gages-story/) - We LOVE to read the testimonials that parents often send in about their experience, and baby Gage's family was no different. Below is an excerpt from their story .....In March of 2008, I met with Dawn at Beacon House Adoption Service.She was very knowledgeable about international adoption and patientlyansweredall of my questions. I completed my
- [Top Ten Reasons to Adopt](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/04/top-ten-reasons-to-adopt/) - There are SO many great reasons to consider adoption. We love, love, love to hear a families heart, and why they chose adoption .... Sharlene, over at adoption.com shared hers: "There are multiple reasons my husband and I decided to adopt children. These are the top ten reasons why Adoption was right for us:1.)
- [Adoption Transition, Bringing Baby Home](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/04/adoption-transition-bringing-baby-home-2/) - Step back and consider that although you and your home have been preparing for bringing baby home, the child had no transition time - One day - there you were, and everything the baby/child was familiar with changed. So what should you do if child is having some difficulty adjusting?The most important thing you can
- [Adjusting to New Living](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/04/adjusting-to-new-living/) - Yes, We do know that Russian adoptions have been in the news in not such a positive light - but what about the other 1800 children who are now living with families that embrace them in ways they never could have imagined? Well, we decided now would be a great time to help families with
- [What to read?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/04/what-to-read/) - We often get asked what books do we recommend? Well a personal favorite of our very own Beacon House founder, Anne Hughes, favors a story by John M. Simmons - The Marvelous Journey Home. This amazing story is full of ups and downs and is certain to pull on your heart. Although most of the names
- [The IGIVE Challenge](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/03/the-igive-challenge/) - What is the IGIVE challenge? It is a collection of all of your favorite spots to shop on-line [think Amazon.com, A Pea in the Pod, HSN, QVC, PrintRunner and MORE] - and just by becoming a new member, IGIVE will give $1 to Beacon House Adoption!! If you choose to make a purchase from any
- [Now is the time to start your adoption journey .....](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/2010/02/now-is-the-time-to-start-your-adoption-journey/) - The Adoption Tax Credit of $12,150.00 is set to sunset (end) on December 31, 2010. This may be the LAST YEAR you can get this credit and if you start the process now, it may be possible to complete your adoption in 2010. In order to help anyone ready to start the process, from now until March

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- [Adoptive Parent Profiles](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/adoptive-parent-profiles/) - Are you pregnant and considering adoption? Beacon House Adoption Services understands it’s not easy. View Adoptive Parent Profiles and feel comfortable with your choice.
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- [Considering Adoption?](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/) - Are you considering adoption? Pregnant and need help? Beacon House Adoption Services will be there every step of the way. Contact us 1-888-987-6300.
- [Choosing Adoption](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/choosing-adoption/) - Beacon House Adoption Services understands it’s not easy. Choosing adoption is a courageous and loving decision. We can help you make an adoption plan if that is the right choice for you.
- [Take the Helm](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/take-the-helm/) - Beacon House Adoption Services understands it’s not easy. Choosing adoption is a courageous and loving decision. Take the helm and steer your own path to adoption.
- [Birth Father Rights](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/birth-father-rights/) - Beacon House Adoption Services understands it’s not easy. Choosing adoption is a courageous and loving decision. We will ensure you understand your and the birth fathers’ rights.
- [Birth Mother Process](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/birth-mother-process/) - Considering Adoption? Beacon House Adoption Services guide to the birth mother process can help you make an adoption plan and determine if adoption is the right choice for you.
- [Birth Mother Counseling](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/birth-mother-counseling/) - Birth Mother Counseling is a key service provided by Beacon House Adoption Services. We are here for you every step of the way to ensure a smooth birth mother process.
- [​FAQ](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/domestic-adoption-program/faq/) - Beacon House Adoption Services Domestic Adoption Program is committed to placing children born in the United States into permanent, loving homes.
- [Confidential Pregnancy Inquiry](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/birth-mother-assistance-form/) - Once a birth mother has committed to an adoption plan financial help is available to ensure the health of birth mother and child. Submit a confidential birth mother assistance form now
- [Birth Mother Financial Assistance](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/considering-adoption/birth-mother-financial-assistance/) - Beacon House Adoption Services is here for you. We can provide birth mother financial assistance in the form of living expenses such as rent, utilities and grocery money.
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## Profiles

- [Devin and Brennon](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/devin-and-brennon/) - Hello! We’re Devin and Brennon, and we want to express our heartfelt gratitude for taking the time to get to know us. We are honored that you are considering us during such an important and personal decision. We have been together since 2015, when we met as high school juniors, and we were married in
- [Sabrina](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/sabrina/) - Hello, and thank you for taking the time to learn about me. My name is Sabrina, and I am a caring, family-oriented woman from southeast Louisiana with a lifelong dream of becoming a mother. I grew up in a close-knit family that taught me the values of love, loyalty, kindness, and showing up for the
- [Jordan & Abbi](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/jordan-abbi/) - Hi! We are Jordan and Abbi. We are keenly aware that pursuing adoption for your baby is not an easy decision. In a world where there are many options, we’re overjoyed you’ve chosen this one. To introduce ourselves: we’ve been very happily married for 8 years. Jordan is an attorney in a family-oriented firm, and
- [Lauren & Patrick](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/lauren-patrick/) - Hello! Our names are Lauren and Patrick. Lauren is a theatre teacher, and Patrick is an HVAC warehouse manager. Together, we also work with our local professional hockey team, tutoring their younger skaters. We met in 2018 and married in 2020. One of the greatest blessings in our lives is that we are not only
- [Spencer & Laura](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/spencer-laura/) - Greetings! We would love the opportunity to grow our family through adoption. Your courage and selflessness are honorable! We are here to help offer support and respect your desired plan if given the opportunity. Wish you all the best! Forever grateful, Spencer and Laura
- [Myrialis & Jason](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/myrialis-jason/) - We are Myrialis and Jason, and we have been together for 17 wonderful years and married since 2010. We met in law school and built a life rooted in love, laughter, stability, and a shared sense of adventure. Together with our French Bulldogs, Fitz and Diego, we are excited and hopeful to grow our family
- [Mariana & Marc](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/mariana-marc/) - Hello! We are Mariana and Marc, and we have been building our life together for nine wonderful years. Mariana is an art teacher and professional artist, and Marc has a background in organic chemistry and owns a small dessert business. We share a love for family, travel, learning, and creating meaningful experiences together. Our home
- [Marc & Ashley](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/ashley-marc/) - Hello! We are Marc and Ashley, and we’re so grateful for the opportunity to share a little about ourselves with you. Our relationship began as a friendship in high school in 2006 and grew into a loving partnership over the years. We were married in 2021 and feel deeply hopeful and honored to grow our
- [Jessica & Mike](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/jessica-mike/) - Hi there, We are Jessica and Mike, and we’ve been married for over ten years. Mike works as a veterinarian and Jessica works part time in healthcare at a local hospital. Together with our son Cooper and our boxer pup Millie, we are hoping to grow our family through adoption. Some of our favorite activities
- [Laura Marie & Phil](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/laura-marie-phil/) - Hello, We’re Laura Marie and Phil. We’ve been together for about 11 years and we were happily married in July 2022. Early in our relationship we knew one day we would want to provide a loving, nurturing home for a child through adoption. We live in a quiet neighborhood not too far from a big
- [Emily & Jim](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/emily-jim/) - We’re Emily and Jim, and we’re so grateful you’re taking the time to learn a little about us. As artists, creativity is a big part of our lives, and our home is filled with music, laughter, and the playful energy of our French bulldog, Xena, and our two cats. Emily is thoughtful and compassionate, and
- [Kate & Russell](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/kate-russell/) - Hello! We’re Kate and Russell. Thank you for taking time to learn about our family. We have been together for 10 years and married for 4. Adoption has long been our goal to grow our family, and we are so excited to have this opportunity. We live in a small town with our dog, Phoebe,
- [James & Morgan](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/james-morgan/) - Hi! We are James and Morgan. We began dating in high school in 2009, and got married in 2018. We have been through so much of this life together, and are truly each other’s best friend and biggest supporter. James is a superintendent for a general contacting company and Morgan is an occupational therapist. We
- [Barbara & Darrell](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/barbara-darrell/) - Hello, We’re Barbara and Darrell. Thank you for taking the time to learn about us. We’ve been together since high school and married for nine adventure-filled years. As best friends, we love the outdoors, the arts, and sharing life with our sweet dog, Nola. We are excited to grow our family through adoption and share
- [Colin & Danielle](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/colin-danielle/) - Dear Expectant Mother, Thank you for taking the time to learn about us. Our names are Colin and Danielle. We can only imagine the strength and love behind the decisions you’re facing, and we want you to know we see your courage. If you choose us, we would honor your child with a home filled
- [Trey & Talia](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/trey-talia/) - Hello! We’re Trey and Talia, and we’re so glad you’re taking a moment to get to know us. We met in college and have been together for over a decade, married for three years. Trey teaches and coaches high school football and baseball, and Talia’s background in engineering led her to build and run a
- [Phillips & Maggie](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/phillips-maggie/) - Hi! We are Phillips and Maggie! We have been together for over 10 wonderful years and married since 2019. Phillips is a civil engineer, and Maggie is an elementary school teacher. We love cats, books, walks, and laughter! Our relationship is built on shared values of community, equality, empathy, and simple joys. These values are
- [Brian & Francesca](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/brian-francesca/) - We are Brian, Francesca, and Charlie! A happy, faithful, adoring and affectionate family of three eager to grow and spread our love! We grew up as neighbors, and our families have always been very close friends! We love to vacation with our son and take him on new adventures almost every weekend. If we're not
- [Nils & Olivia](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/nils-olivia/) - Hi, we're Nils and Olivia! Nils works from home in advertising and Olivia works in marketing at a hot sauce company. We have two little girls and a dog. We're excited to complete our family through adoption. As a family, we love attending sporting events, exploring parks and playgrounds, and trying new coffee shops. Nils
- [Jeremy & Lance](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/jeremy-lance/) - We are Jeremy and Lance. We’ve been together for eight wonderful years and married for almost three. Our relationship has always been rooted in love, stability, and a shared dream of becoming parents. We’re hoping to adopt because we’re ready to open our hearts and home to a child, providing them with unconditional support, laughter,
- [Matt & Kristine](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/matt-kristine/) - Hello, we are Matt & Kristine! We met on November 1st, 2012, at a second-line parade in New Orleans, Louisiana—a city full of music, magic, and unexpected moments. Not long after, we realized we also wanted to get married and build a family — to share our love of adventure, travel, community, sports, and especially
- [Jonah & Natalie](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/jonah-natalie/) - Hello! We are Jonah and Natalie. Thank you for taking the time to learn a little more about us! We began dating in 2020, and we got married in 2023. Jonah is a warehouse technician and has two Associate’s Degrees, one in instrumentation technician and one in electrical technician. Natalie is an accountant for the
- [Maria & Kirby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/maria-kirby/) - Hi there, we are Maria and Kirby! Thank you for learning a little about us. We met in college and have been married for 11 years. We always have had a natural friendship, and we are true partners in life. Our loyalty to each other has allowed us to build a home full of joy,
- [Della & Ray](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/della-ray/) - Hello, Our names are Ardele and Raymond, but friends and family call us Della and Ray. We met through work in 2014 and were married in 2017. Some of our favorite things include playing video games, watching movies, and caring for our beloved pets—a cat and a rabbit. During the summer, we love to unwind
- [Zander & Shelby](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/zander-shelby/) - Dear One, We are Zander and Shelby. We have been married for 8 years, but grew up together as high school sweethearts. Zander works in aviation as a flight instructor, and I am currently a stay-at-home mom to our 4-year-old son, who is extremely excited to be a big brother! I have a degree in
- [Paul & Michelle](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/paul-michelle/) - Hello! We are Paul and Michelle. Thank you for taking the time to learn a bit about us. We met in 2018 on a camping trip in Canada and married in 2020. Paul was born and raised in Australia but moved to the United States shortly before our wedding. Paul is an automation engineer and
- [William & Raegan](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/william-raegan/) - Hello there! We are William and Raegan. Thank you for learning more about us. We know you are probably looking for a wonderful family and a secure future for this child, while we are looking forward to beginning our family and loving a child with all our hearts. So maybe we are looking for each
- [Collin & Kaleigh](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/collin-kaleigh/) - Hey there! We are Collin and Kaleigh and our hearts’ desire is to grow our family through adoption. Collin (accountant) enjoys running, fishing, and grilling. Kaleigh (speech therapist) loves to read, decorate, and be outside. Together, find joy in playing with our 2 dogs, traveling, and spending time with loved ones. We dream of the
- [Ashley & Raphael](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/ashley-raphael/) - Hello! We’re Ashley and Raphael — best friends, partners in adventure, and hopefully soon-to-be loving parents. We’ve been married for several years and share a life full of laughter, family traditions, and simple joys. Ashley works from home for a very family-first business technology insights company and is a warm, creative soul who loves baking,
- [Mike & Sarah](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/mike-sarah/) - Hello! We are Mike and Sarah. Thank you for taking a minute to learn more about us! We met during our final year of college and have been married since 2011. Mike is a civil engineer who works from home. Sarah is a stay-at-home mom to our son, Wyatt, who joined our family through adoption
- [Lauren](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/lauren/) - Hello and nice to meet you! I have always had a profound desire to be a mom. I cannot wait to care for a child the way that my loved ones have cared for me and to build on the legacy of the generations before me. While I had always imagined I would embark on
- [Nicole & Nicholas](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/nicole-nicholas/) - Hello! It’s wonderful to meet you! We are Nicole and Nicholas. We’ve been together for eight years and married for five. We met in 2017, and our first date was filled with stories of travel, reading and a shared love of outdoor activities. We have a lovable Shih Tzu puppy and tabby cat. Nicole is
- [Neill](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/neill/) - Hello! My name is Neill. I come from a large extended family; one we affectionately call “our village.” I always dreamed of getting married and starting a family. I haven’t yet met the right man, so I explored other ways to start a family. In doing so, I discovered I am unable to bear children.
- [Jordan & Victoria](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/jordan-victoria/) - Hello, We are Victoria and Jordan, we started dating in college and have been married since 2015. We have traveled all over the world and have been able to check off 21 international destinations and have even done a cross country road trip! We cannot wait to share the joy of learning and travel with
- [Bart & Amanda](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/bart-amanda/) - Hi! We are Bart and Amanda! We’ve been together since 2008 and married since 2013. We have 2 biological sons and are excited to expand our family through adoption! Amanda taught elementary school for 10 years then stayed home with the boys and Bart has been a Financial Advisor since 2014. We live in a
- [Reid & Amy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/reid-amy/) - Hello, We are Amy and Reid. We have been together for 5 years. We own a house in north Texas. Reid is a Software Engineer and Amy is a Software Tester, though we plan on Amy being a full time mom when we are parents. We met over our shared love of games. By facing
- [Luke & Amy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/luke-amy/) - Hello! We’ve been together for 8 years and married for 5. We have a 2-year-old biological son, Jackson, and we are excited to expand our family through adoption. Amy is a Registered Nurse and Luke is Active Duty Air Force. We live in a military housing community surrounded by parks, a pool, and splash pads.
- [Greg & Brandy](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/greg-brandy/) - We are Greg and Brandy and we are each other's best friend. We live in a southern town rich with culture and entertainment. Brandy is an elementary school teacher and Greg is a culinary trained chef. When we are not working, we enjoy watching football games, fishing, camping, going to the beach, and spending time
- [Kurt & Mackenzie](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/kurt-mackenzie/) - Hello, we are Kurt and Mackenzie. More than ten years ago, we began our journey together and have been happily married for the past five years. We reside in Wisconsin with our two beloved dogs, Basel and Finnegan. Kurt works as a maintenance technician, while Mackenzie works in special education. Our love for family is
- [Sam & Leslie](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/sam-leslie/) - Hello, we are so excited you’re here! Our names are Sam and Leslie. We have been married for over 4 years and are anxious to start a family. We live in a quiet, rural town close to Leslie’s family with our cats and dogs. Sam works in the automotive industry and Leslie is a public
- [Kyle & Jessica](https://beaconhouseadoption.com/profile/kyle-jessica/) - Hello, we are Kyle & Jess. We have been married for 6 years and are excited to begin this chapter of our life by starting the adoption process. I am active duty military and Jess is a Physician Assistant both living and working in the South. We love to spend our time fishing and being

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